"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't get trod on

Jay Dee

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Just got back in after a night out, just wanted to post what I thought was an unusual situation at this bar/club I go to somewhat regularly, every few weeks. Got there after 4am, minding my own business, dancing and shuffling a bit, and this woman comes over from across the room. Noticed she'd been sitting in a bloke's lap earlier, but didn't give it much more notice than that. HB6 milf but trim figure - seen her before but that's been it.

Stands by me, and shows me her shoe, which had a bit of cardboard stuck to it. She only expected me to take it off for her!!! I laughed at her. Tried to lift her other leg to get her to step on it (excuse for some kino), but it had already come off. She then shows the other shoe and there's a cotton ear bud (Q-Tip) stuck on there - I laughed even more. Says a lot about the places I go, eh.

It gets worse... she says 'could you take it off' I say 'you're a grown up you can do it yourself' and also called her a child for needing someone to do it for her. Course I had some mouth back, but I ignored it - it was an awful test. If she'd flirted first or I danced with her earlier AND I was feeling generous I might have kicked her shoe. But bending down and use my hand? What's in it for me considering another guy is in the picture? Hell no.

I don't post normally because although there's lots of bad behaviour out in the bars and clubs - I'm usually immune. However had to get this one out there as I hope it's not a trend. There's a moral to the story - don't get used as a slave -but wanted to write up a real life story to motivate and demonstrate what to do if such a situation occurs to the young Juans here. I just hope this is not too commonplace.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demonicale

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Well done bud, you played it right. You'd have looked like such a tool if you had gotten down on your knees to take the **** off her shoe. Bravo!
 

PeasantPlayer

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Does KINO stand for anything? I know it has to do with touching, contact. What is some effect KINO?
 

No.Danny

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PeasantPlayer said:
Does KINO stand for anything? I know it has to do with touching, contact. What is some effect KINO?
Kino helps raise attraction. Let's her know you're attracted. Friends don't use kino.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No.Danny

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PeasantPlayer said:
What is KINO exactly though? Any articles?
I have one in the high school forum. Kino is touching. Hugs, brushing of arms, knees. Hand holding. Etc....
 

IBreatheSpears

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"Kino" comes from Greek kineo which literally means "to set in motion". We use it to mean touching for some reason even though there's no English word with the root kineo which has anything to do with touch. The closest is kinesthesia which is our sense of motion. Nothing to do with touching though, Idk what genius decided to use that.
 

VladPatton

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Damn. If she would of asked me to get that QTip off her shoe I would of said "that's ok, I'm good, I'll pass on that", gotten myself a beer and gotten the fück away from her. Bıtch had balls.
 

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I wonder if she was trying to punk you on purpose. Maybe she told her friends "watch what I can do..."
 
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