Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
2nded. Because there is a seemingly low probability they wont even try. Thats the correlation I was trying to show with cold approaches and marriage...stand said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't get married
- Thread starter Luveno
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
I want to get married because I want to be the father figure of a functional family unit. The failure rate of marriages has largely to do with people who make really bad marital decisions. Sometimes, they just fail because of things beyond either spouses' control. It's a chance I'm willing to take.
Getting married just so you can have sex is the dumbest thing I've ever heard though. If you're christian, I'd suggest you commit a serious sin and have sex with someone RATHER THAN marry just for a sexual encounter, cause in the end, the latter would bring even more anguish.
Getting married just so you can have sex is the dumbest thing I've ever heard though. If you're christian, I'd suggest you commit a serious sin and have sex with someone RATHER THAN marry just for a sexual encounter, cause in the end, the latter would bring even more anguish.
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F**k having kids. Just want to be rich and famous and then get a girlfriend. My game sucks ass right now, but once I get successful it's going into high gear.armadon said:
L777
Master Don Juan
Even the ones that do "work" will get to be routine and boring. I agree with the philosopht that no-one except yourself can make you happy except yourself.
Don't get married.
Don't get married.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Note the author's disclaimer. The gent makes a few interesting points. At a minimum, I found it to be an interesting read.
Original Don'tMarry.com essay.
Original Don'tMarry.com essay.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.