Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
2nded. Because there is a seemingly low probability they wont even try. Thats the correlation I was trying to show with cold approaches and marriage...stand said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Don't get married
- Thread starter Luveno
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
I want to get married because I want to be the father figure of a functional family unit. The failure rate of marriages has largely to do with people who make really bad marital decisions. Sometimes, they just fail because of things beyond either spouses' control. It's a chance I'm willing to take.
Getting married just so you can have sex is the dumbest thing I've ever heard though. If you're christian, I'd suggest you commit a serious sin and have sex with someone RATHER THAN marry just for a sexual encounter, cause in the end, the latter would bring even more anguish.
Getting married just so you can have sex is the dumbest thing I've ever heard though. If you're christian, I'd suggest you commit a serious sin and have sex with someone RATHER THAN marry just for a sexual encounter, cause in the end, the latter would bring even more anguish.
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F**k having kids. Just want to be rich and famous and then get a girlfriend. My game sucks ass right now, but once I get successful it's going into high gear.armadon said:
L777
Master Don Juan
Even the ones that do "work" will get to be routine and boring. I agree with the philosopht that no-one except yourself can make you happy except yourself.
Don't get married.
Don't get married.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Note the author's disclaimer. The gent makes a few interesting points. At a minimum, I found it to be an interesting read.
Original Don'tMarry.com essay.
Original Don'tMarry.com essay.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.