"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't feel sexual anymore???

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I don't know what is going on I just don't feel sexually excited anymore. I don't even want to masterbate anymore. What the hell is going on. I used to be DTF all the time but now I just don't seem into it. I had a girl over here who was down and I just couldn't get in to it. I guess I'm just not looking for sex anymore. Hell my ex was touching on me yesterday and I just brushed her hand away. I didn't even touch her like I used to do. With this other girl I just couldn't do it I mean i met her twice and she was ready she was wet. Just seems wrong to me I used to be able to do two women in one day a couple years ago but now nothing. What's going on???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dear JustPuzzle,
Well unless you post your age how can we help you?
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear JustPuzzle,
Well unless you post your age how can we help you?
Hell, my bad I'm 25 won't be 26 til october of this year. I think I just don't feel right it's a mental thing know what I'm saying. When I get my stuff together I'll feel better about myself. I don't know just what I'm thinking
 

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Don't sweat it at all. It's just a phase most men go through once in a blue moon.

Most likely your subconsciouse is busy at work figuring out or resolving issues in your life, and the engines have been idled down. Just accept it and roll with it and without even realizing it you'll be back in the saddle when the time is right. It's normal.
 

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Thanks JW,
Most unusual,sounds as though it is something Medical....See your Doc,insist on a testosterone test...If you can't afford or are shy,I am sure correspondence with Collossus would be beneficial.Should your test be within acceptable limits,you really need to talk to a shrink....Don't let this slide it IS NOT NORMAL.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Atom Smasher said:
Don't sweat it at all. It's just a phase most men go through once in a blue moon.

Most likely your subconsciouse is busy at work figuring out or resolving issues in your life, and the engines have been idled down. Just accept it and roll with it and without even realizing it you'll be back in the saddle when the time is right. It's normal.
This.
 

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It will come back, you're most likely focusing your energy on other pursuits at the moment and it's taking a toll on your libido.

Just don't obsess on it, it only makes it worth.

For now, why would you miss something you don't want?
 

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how do you feel about life in general? are you under stress at worketc? more than usual? any other stressors (new or bigger) in your life?
loss of libido can be due to stress and or depression, how is your motivation? activity levels? are you exercising and eating well?
 

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It could be a phase, but keep in mind arousal is a fairly complicated series of events and triggers. It sounds to me like your issue is psychological. You probably know best what the root of that is. If you WANT to get down but your hardware isnt cooperating, then that could be physiological. At your age that is unlikely, however. If it doesnt pass in a few weeks I would get your testosterone checked and a general cardiovascular workup.
 

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Colossus said:
It could be a phase, but keep in mind arousal is a fairly complicated series of events and triggers. It sounds to me like your issue is psychological. You probably know best what the root of that is. If you WANT to get down but your hardware isnt cooperating, then that could be physiological. At your age that is unlikely, however. If it doesnt pass in a few weeks I would get your testosterone checked and a general cardiovascular workup.
Yeah, I just posted something bout my ex my legs bothering didn't help. It was just temorary though. I'm back to normal I think I will hold up from spanking the old weasel probably forever.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That happened to me but I met a new girl and suddenly had 4 hour erections.
 
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