"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't know what is going on I just don't feel sexually excited anymore. I don't even want to masterbate anymore. What the hell is going on. I used to be DTF all the time but now I just don't seem into it. I had a girl over here who was down and I just couldn't get in to it. I guess I'm just not looking for sex anymore. Hell my ex was touching on me yesterday and I just brushed her hand away. I didn't even touch her like I used to do. With this other girl I just couldn't do it I mean i met her twice and she was ready she was wet. Just seems wrong to me I used to be able to do two women in one day a couple years ago but now nothing. What's going on???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dear JustPuzzle,
Well unless you post your age how can we help you?
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear JustPuzzle,
Well unless you post your age how can we help you?
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Hell, my bad I'm 25 won't be 26 til october of this year. I think I just don't feel right it's a mental thing know what I'm saying. When I get my stuff together I'll feel better about myself. I don't know just what I'm thinking
 
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Don't sweat it at all. It's just a phase most men go through once in a blue moon.

Most likely your subconsciouse is busy at work figuring out or resolving issues in your life, and the engines have been idled down. Just accept it and roll with it and without even realizing it you'll be back in the saddle when the time is right. It's normal.
 
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Thanks JW,
Most unusual,sounds as though it is something Medical....See your Doc,insist on a testosterone test...If you can't afford or are shy,I am sure correspondence with Collossus would be beneficial.Should your test be within acceptable limits,you really need to talk to a shrink....Don't let this slide it IS NOT NORMAL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Atom Smasher said:
Don't sweat it at all. It's just a phase most men go through once in a blue moon.

Most likely your subconsciouse is busy at work figuring out or resolving issues in your life, and the engines have been idled down. Just accept it and roll with it and without even realizing it you'll be back in the saddle when the time is right. It's normal.
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This.
 
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It will come back, you're most likely focusing your energy on other pursuits at the moment and it's taking a toll on your libido.

Just don't obsess on it, it only makes it worth.

For now, why would you miss something you don't want?
 
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how do you feel about life in general? are you under stress at worketc? more than usual? any other stressors (new or bigger) in your life?
loss of libido can be due to stress and or depression, how is your motivation? activity levels? are you exercising and eating well?
 
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It could be a phase, but keep in mind arousal is a fairly complicated series of events and triggers. It sounds to me like your issue is psychological. You probably know best what the root of that is. If you WANT to get down but your hardware isnt cooperating, then that could be physiological. At your age that is unlikely, however. If it doesnt pass in a few weeks I would get your testosterone checked and a general cardiovascular workup.
 
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Colossus said:
It could be a phase, but keep in mind arousal is a fairly complicated series of events and triggers. It sounds to me like your issue is psychological. You probably know best what the root of that is. If you WANT to get down but your hardware isnt cooperating, then that could be physiological. At your age that is unlikely, however. If it doesnt pass in a few weeks I would get your testosterone checked and a general cardiovascular workup.
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Yeah, I just posted something bout my ex my legs bothering didn't help. It was just temorary though. I'm back to normal I think I will hold up from spanking the old weasel probably forever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That happened to me but I met a new girl and suddenly had 4 hour erections.
 
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