"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't feed the attention wh*res

TheNewGuy

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Lately there have been a lot of attention *****s coming on here, seeking the attention that they don't get in real life. By posting in their threads you are making them feel successful and thus letting them know that their threads do get them attention. They enjoy negative attention as well, so don't make fun of them either. I know I've been guilty of this before and I now realize how dumb it was.

If you don't want these people around here, which I'm sure you don't, just don't reply to them. Report the thread (hit the little red triangle looking thing) and just post "Reported." in order to let others know they don't need to.

If everyone follows these directions, we'll eradicate the forum of trolls very quickly.

-tng
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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i'll admit i wasnt happy that vipers last post was closed before i got to laugh at him. sometimes things like that are hard to resist, but its all for the better i suppose.

but yeah i've seen threads like this a couple times, nothing ever changes.
 

Vincent

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It should be noted that if you think the thread has been reported (like say if someone posts saying so) there's no need to clutter up moderators mail boxes with 10 reports for the same thead.

If everyone did their part to not feed particularly bad posters with posts they won't feel compelled to post them anymore. I can only close the threads, but I can't fix the problems.
 
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