"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't feed the attention wh*res

TheNewGuy

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Lately there have been a lot of attention *****s coming on here, seeking the attention that they don't get in real life. By posting in their threads you are making them feel successful and thus letting them know that their threads do get them attention. They enjoy negative attention as well, so don't make fun of them either. I know I've been guilty of this before and I now realize how dumb it was.

If you don't want these people around here, which I'm sure you don't, just don't reply to them. Report the thread (hit the little red triangle looking thing) and just post "Reported." in order to let others know they don't need to.

If everyone follows these directions, we'll eradicate the forum of trolls very quickly.

-tng
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannowillbookem

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i'll admit i wasnt happy that vipers last post was closed before i got to laugh at him. sometimes things like that are hard to resist, but its all for the better i suppose.

but yeah i've seen threads like this a couple times, nothing ever changes.
 

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It should be noted that if you think the thread has been reported (like say if someone posts saying so) there's no need to clutter up moderators mail boxes with 10 reports for the same thead.

If everyone did their part to not feed particularly bad posters with posts they won't feel compelled to post them anymore. I can only close the threads, but I can't fix the problems.
 
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