"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't ever think a girl is out of your league

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I used to do this but I realized it is self limiting and puts the women on the pedestal. Like somone else mentioned, don't even give women a rating from 1-10; you either find her attractive or you don't. Using the rating scale also puts her on a pedestal especially if you only see yourself as a 6 or 7.

So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mahon83050 said:
So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league.

This negates the previous part of the post.
 

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"So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league."

Eh, even those guys have a chance if either they have a ton of money or the HB10 they are targeting is mentally fvcked up.
 

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KontrollerX said:
"So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league."

Eh, even those guys have a chance if either they have a ton of money or the HB10 they are targeting is mentally fvcked up.
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
 

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ElStud said:
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
Load of bull. Hence, if you are fat or ugly you are not going to get hot chicks. I work at a hotel where I witness hundreds of couples coming to the desk checking in the hotel. Most couples are within the same looks range with some average looking men with some hotties. I HAVE NEVER seen a George Costanza look alike or a man with a face like Oliver Platt with an attractive woman.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud said:
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
bump.
 

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Looks wont matter too much later in life, but in High School, it's all you've got.
 

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Just forgot I left one out...

If a guy is fat or ugly and has power he can get chicks from that as well.

Think it was fat old Henry Kissinger that said "Power is the ultimate aphrodesiac" when asked how he could get so many beautiful women despite being a fat man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mahon83050 said:
True. Girls are REAL shallow in high school. Ever notice how all the popular people are always good-looking,
Depends on the High School though. For instance, at the High School I go to nobody really does any of that "clique" or "popular" crap. Here all that really matters is if you're social or you're not social. Around here if you're a real ugly or you're a fat dude, if you're social and friends with a lot of people you can probably get chicks. Infact, around here it's probably true that you could be a total geek and if you just start talking to a lot of people and make friends with a lot of people, you could get laid. That's basically what I mean by the whole "we don't do cliques" thing, no one here really judges. All you have to worry about here are people who talk sh*t and try to fight. If you can ignore those guys, you're good.
 

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omg...shut the hell up with all this god damn "if your fat you cant get girls" fvcking BS!!. im 280 fvcking pounds for god sakes and im friends with the most gorgeous girls ive ever seen with my own 2 damn eyes, no i didnt bang either one of them, were good friends and looks CANT AND WONT stop you from taking to women, i have a pretty good looking face and a chubby body, but i dont go up to girls and start some fvcking sorry ass conversation and act like i feel sorry for myself, i have a great sense of humor and everyone loves it , i have yet to hear from the b!tch that doesnt like me or thinks im a fvcking chump . Get your ass off the comp, go buy some new clothes an clean your ass up! You can do what ever the **** you want if you try! Not every girl you see has to be your girlfriend, make friends with ppl until you find the right girl that isnt a ***** to you!
 

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A cute guy unconfident as he might be will always attract more chicks than an ugly confident guy,that's how works.
 

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but a good body help you a lot in boosting your confidence when talking with hot girls, I was very skinny 150lbs @ 6.3!! I put in my mind that I don't want to be the skinny guy anymore and when I put on muscles my confidence got higher then I took a decision to remove the glasses so I did a lazik surgery...really its not that hard to lose weight if you are fat and result is more confidence with the hot girls!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy said:
omg...shut the hell up with all this god damn "if your fat you cant get girls" fvcking BS!!. im 280 fvcking pounds for god sakes and im friends with the most gorgeous girls ive ever seen with my own 2 damn eyes, no i didnt bang either one of them, were good friends and looks CANT AND WONT stop you from taking to women, i have a pretty good looking face and a chubby body, but i dont go up to girls and start some fvcking sorry ass conversation and act like i feel sorry for myself, i have a great sense of humor and everyone loves it , i have yet to hear from the b!tch that doesnt like me or thinks im a fvcking chump . Get your ass off the comp, go buy some new clothes an clean your ass up! You can do what ever the **** you want if you try! Not every girl you see has to be your girlfriend, make friends with ppl until you find the right girl that isnt a ***** to you!
You answered your own question. I never said if you are fat or ugly women WON'T talk to you or be your friend. THey just won't be sexually attracted to you (attractive women that is). You are NOT sleeping with these women, which makes my point.
 

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definitely leave out the part about an ugly face. An "ugly" face doesn't define a man; a man's character defines him.

If he's fat, tho, that says a whole lot about his character. Men are defined by action, not laziness and inactivity.

Overall, I still don't think looks matter much, whether they're genetic or caused by too little exercise.
 

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Well, maybe the face is not so important. According to Rom Willis, author of "Nice Guys and Playas" he puts alot more emphasis on a mans body than his face. A nice hard body is more important to women than having a handsome face. According to him, a rather ugly man with a muscular fit body is better off than an overweight man with a handsome face.
 

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A man is able to control how he dresses, conducts himself, bodylanguage, and how physically fit he is, which I think is very important in attracting women. Now genetics will control if you have a butt-chin or a huge nose, but if you got confidence and dont let it get you down, you'll be fine.;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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