"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't ever think a girl is out of your league

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I used to do this but I realized it is self limiting and puts the women on the pedestal. Like somone else mentioned, don't even give women a rating from 1-10; you either find her attractive or you don't. Using the rating scale also puts her on a pedestal especially if you only see yourself as a 6 or 7.

So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mahon83050 said:
So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league.

This negates the previous part of the post.
 

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"So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league."

Eh, even those guys have a chance if either they have a ton of money or the HB10 they are targeting is mentally fvcked up.
 

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KontrollerX said:
"So, unless you are OVERWEIGHT OR HAVE AN UGLY FACE, no woman is out of your league."

Eh, even those guys have a chance if either they have a ton of money or the HB10 they are targeting is mentally fvcked up.
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
 

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ElStud said:
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
Load of bull. Hence, if you are fat or ugly you are not going to get hot chicks. I work at a hotel where I witness hundreds of couples coming to the desk checking in the hotel. Most couples are within the same looks range with some average looking men with some hotties. I HAVE NEVER seen a George Costanza look alike or a man with a face like Oliver Platt with an attractive woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElStud said:
They don't even need money and the HB10 does not have to be fvcked up. If the guy has confidence in his game, women will regardless be attracted to him. Women aren't just going to reject a guy because of his looks. Good looking guys get rejected all the time because they aren't confident. Likewise, fat and ugly guys are always walking around with hot babes. Fat and ugly guys might have to try harder depending on the girl, but in the end it's completely possible for them to lay the girl.
bump.
 

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Looks wont matter too much later in life, but in High School, it's all you've got.
 

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Just forgot I left one out...

If a guy is fat or ugly and has power he can get chicks from that as well.

Think it was fat old Henry Kissinger that said "Power is the ultimate aphrodesiac" when asked how he could get so many beautiful women despite being a fat man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mahon83050 said:
True. Girls are REAL shallow in high school. Ever notice how all the popular people are always good-looking,
Depends on the High School though. For instance, at the High School I go to nobody really does any of that "clique" or "popular" crap. Here all that really matters is if you're social or you're not social. Around here if you're a real ugly or you're a fat dude, if you're social and friends with a lot of people you can probably get chicks. Infact, around here it's probably true that you could be a total geek and if you just start talking to a lot of people and make friends with a lot of people, you could get laid. That's basically what I mean by the whole "we don't do cliques" thing, no one here really judges. All you have to worry about here are people who talk sh*t and try to fight. If you can ignore those guys, you're good.
 

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omg...shut the hell up with all this god damn "if your fat you cant get girls" fvcking BS!!. im 280 fvcking pounds for god sakes and im friends with the most gorgeous girls ive ever seen with my own 2 damn eyes, no i didnt bang either one of them, were good friends and looks CANT AND WONT stop you from taking to women, i have a pretty good looking face and a chubby body, but i dont go up to girls and start some fvcking sorry ass conversation and act like i feel sorry for myself, i have a great sense of humor and everyone loves it , i have yet to hear from the b!tch that doesnt like me or thinks im a fvcking chump . Get your ass off the comp, go buy some new clothes an clean your ass up! You can do what ever the **** you want if you try! Not every girl you see has to be your girlfriend, make friends with ppl until you find the right girl that isnt a ***** to you!
 

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A cute guy unconfident as he might be will always attract more chicks than an ugly confident guy,that's how works.
 

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but a good body help you a lot in boosting your confidence when talking with hot girls, I was very skinny 150lbs @ 6.3!! I put in my mind that I don't want to be the skinny guy anymore and when I put on muscles my confidence got higher then I took a decision to remove the glasses so I did a lazik surgery...really its not that hard to lose weight if you are fat and result is more confidence with the hot girls!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HandyAndy said:
omg...shut the hell up with all this god damn "if your fat you cant get girls" fvcking BS!!. im 280 fvcking pounds for god sakes and im friends with the most gorgeous girls ive ever seen with my own 2 damn eyes, no i didnt bang either one of them, were good friends and looks CANT AND WONT stop you from taking to women, i have a pretty good looking face and a chubby body, but i dont go up to girls and start some fvcking sorry ass conversation and act like i feel sorry for myself, i have a great sense of humor and everyone loves it , i have yet to hear from the b!tch that doesnt like me or thinks im a fvcking chump . Get your ass off the comp, go buy some new clothes an clean your ass up! You can do what ever the **** you want if you try! Not every girl you see has to be your girlfriend, make friends with ppl until you find the right girl that isnt a ***** to you!
You answered your own question. I never said if you are fat or ugly women WON'T talk to you or be your friend. THey just won't be sexually attracted to you (attractive women that is). You are NOT sleeping with these women, which makes my point.
 

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definitely leave out the part about an ugly face. An "ugly" face doesn't define a man; a man's character defines him.

If he's fat, tho, that says a whole lot about his character. Men are defined by action, not laziness and inactivity.

Overall, I still don't think looks matter much, whether they're genetic or caused by too little exercise.
 

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Well, maybe the face is not so important. According to Rom Willis, author of "Nice Guys and Playas" he puts alot more emphasis on a mans body than his face. A nice hard body is more important to women than having a handsome face. According to him, a rather ugly man with a muscular fit body is better off than an overweight man with a handsome face.
 

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A man is able to control how he dresses, conducts himself, bodylanguage, and how physically fit he is, which I think is very important in attracting women. Now genetics will control if you have a butt-chin or a huge nose, but if you got confidence and dont let it get you down, you'll be fine.;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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