"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't EVER stop

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I used to be a student of this website I used it to get me on my feet learn a little bit about girls the rest I have been learning on my own (doing very well thanks to you guys), but I feel like I owe you all a lil bit.

So I will share some important advice

if you apply the things this website teaches you, you WILL get girls.

you WILL find a girl you like

**once you find this girl its gonna become easy to forget about the ideas you learned and go back to being a wuss so my advice is as much as you want to go back to your old self. She fell in love with your New IMPROVED self so don't go back to being a wuss or try "just be[ing] yourself"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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^^^wtf


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sorry fatbastard had posted some idiotic statement
 
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I have to admit when Ifirstt found this website I would act cool and collected for a while and then I would start to revert back to an AFC after a while, always stay collected and know what your doing
 
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just be yourself goddamit. take pride in what you do and who you are. Treat people well. its not brain surgery guys.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't change yourself for someone. If you're striving to be someone you're not to impress someone, then when it's over you're just going to go back to how you were before, probably a lesser man, and there would be no point in that. Just be yourself. There's nothing wrong with making improvements, but make sure you do it for yourself.
 

dannowillbookem

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yeah but when i or most guys be themselves they go out and tell hot girls they love them and would like to go fvck them and get restraining orders. :down:

although u cant pretend to be someone else, u have to change yourself to start making things happen.
 
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That's where you're missing the point. Those that are the most successful at landing girls do not give 2 ****s about what others think of them. They take pride in how they look and how they treat others. They don't seek approval from others, they are confident enough in themselves to know that people can't wait to spend time with them.

When we are in high school, society tricks us into thinking that in order to be happy and well liked we have to act in a way that gains to approval of those around us. It takes quite a person to have the balls to break that mold and stand for something different. You know those people you look at and wish you could be like them? Well, my friend, they know that secret. They're in much better control of their own lives.

"Changing yourself" in the way you speak is from purely an exterior perspective. I suggest that instead of changing yourself, you "augment yourself". Let people know what you are made of and what you have to contribute. So many people complain that no one likes them and that they are lonely but they fail to realize that they haven't put themselves out for anything. People aren't going to notice you by osmosis.

Until you respect yourself enough to let people get to know the real you, you will rarely succeed in the smaller things in life, such as landing HB10's. Anyways, that's my opinion.
 

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Thanks for that great reminder. Being a Don Juan is a way of life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Being a Don Juan is a way of life.
Exactly.

These guys need to realize that, too. You have to be commited or you'll just stray off the path...
 
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