"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I used to be a student of this website I used it to get me on my feet learn a little bit about girls the rest I have been learning on my own (doing very well thanks to you guys), but I feel like I owe you all a lil bit.

So I will share some important advice

if you apply the things this website teaches you, you WILL get girls.

you WILL find a girl you like

**once you find this girl its gonna become easy to forget about the ideas you learned and go back to being a wuss so my advice is as much as you want to go back to your old self. She fell in love with your New IMPROVED self so don't go back to being a wuss or try "just be[ing] yourself"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannowillbookem

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^^^wtf


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sorry fatbastard had posted some idiotic statement
 
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I have to admit when Ifirstt found this website I would act cool and collected for a while and then I would start to revert back to an AFC after a while, always stay collected and know what your doing
 
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just be yourself goddamit. take pride in what you do and who you are. Treat people well. its not brain surgery guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't change yourself for someone. If you're striving to be someone you're not to impress someone, then when it's over you're just going to go back to how you were before, probably a lesser man, and there would be no point in that. Just be yourself. There's nothing wrong with making improvements, but make sure you do it for yourself.
 

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yeah but when i or most guys be themselves they go out and tell hot girls they love them and would like to go fvck them and get restraining orders. :down:

although u cant pretend to be someone else, u have to change yourself to start making things happen.
 
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That's where you're missing the point. Those that are the most successful at landing girls do not give 2 ****s about what others think of them. They take pride in how they look and how they treat others. They don't seek approval from others, they are confident enough in themselves to know that people can't wait to spend time with them.

When we are in high school, society tricks us into thinking that in order to be happy and well liked we have to act in a way that gains to approval of those around us. It takes quite a person to have the balls to break that mold and stand for something different. You know those people you look at and wish you could be like them? Well, my friend, they know that secret. They're in much better control of their own lives.

"Changing yourself" in the way you speak is from purely an exterior perspective. I suggest that instead of changing yourself, you "augment yourself". Let people know what you are made of and what you have to contribute. So many people complain that no one likes them and that they are lonely but they fail to realize that they haven't put themselves out for anything. People aren't going to notice you by osmosis.

Until you respect yourself enough to let people get to know the real you, you will rarely succeed in the smaller things in life, such as landing HB10's. Anyways, that's my opinion.
 

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Thanks for that great reminder. Being a Don Juan is a way of life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Being a Don Juan is a way of life.
Exactly.

These guys need to realize that, too. You have to be commited or you'll just stray off the path...
 
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