Don't do what i did

[salsipuedes]

****, last night i ended my relationship with my girlfriend, we only been togheter for 3 months, i know her since we where in higschool and we have tons of mutual friends, so i took it easy and right from the start i ignored a lot of red flags that EVERYONE should be aware of. My stupid excuse was, "shes a friend, i want to give her the benefit of a doubt". So what where the red flags you ask?

Cancels too many dates
Says she wants children and marriage right from the start
Shes sometimes distant, sometimes all over you
Shes 35 and never been married

I wasnt happy with the relationship right from the start, so what did i do, i was seeing other women, no problem, but still i just couldnt accept the relationship. So last night i got fed up with it, i called her and told her i wasnt "comfortable" with the relationship, she apologized and told me she was sorry for not being able to give it 100% and focusing too much on work, she wanted to wait until the next day so we could talk, but i told her it wasnt necesary, i wished her the best and said goodbye.

Red flags my friends, dont ignore them, they are what they are, in this case, i ignored a woman who was saying she wanted marriage, kids, and soon, and at the time she didnt seem to have time for a day off every now and then.

Don't do what i did, and what did i learn from this one?

1.-Trust your instincts
2.-Don't ignore red flags

 

[flexion_]

Amen.

 

[ForbesLtd]

Twomen.

 

[lets_do_this]

What I did with this other girl, I knew it wouldn't work out.

I just had to **** her first. Yea, im a jerk.