"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont do this when ur out at a bar!

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I was at this bar last night..and this girl next to me dancing..with some Hick..sorry for if there are hicks on here.


had this piece or string or hair on her back...so I pulled it off..anyways he was a pretty big dude.....she was like Oh thanks.and laughs..he is like what a fag.....

she immeadiatly lost interest in him....and her and her friend took off..

why? because he showes his insecurity all in one right there :)

dont be that guy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good to see the rules that applied in high school no longer apply to attracting women.

I wonder if that guy learned his lesson? Probably not. So many of those tough guys are used to getting all of the attention, mostly from behaving like ogres. Well, I guess their approach has its limitations, especially when the goal is to meet and attract friendly, confident, and presumably intelligent women.

Thanks for the anecdote!
 
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lol hellboy... But look, I know you said something back to that dude, frivolousz21. Take sh1t from no one.
 
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the purpose of this post is what now ? Don't call other guys fags ? Thanks, bro. You're such a help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the purpose of this post is telling you dont act tuff when u know ur a *****! :)
 
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but are you sure thats is why the hoes left him.....maybe they were looking for an exit...I dont see what he did so wrong
 
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IN FYCKING SEUCURITY! DO YOU GUYS HAVE NO EXPIERENCE WITH WOMEN??

why on Earth would you get jealous or try to act hard over a guy pulling a hair off a girls shirt tht u just met?

do u get it now?
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
IN FYCKING SEUCURITY! DO YOU GUYS HAVE NO EXPIERENCE WITH WOMEN??
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" LOL "

It's true. Go to a big, crowded bar and you will see at least two types of men. The first type is talking to women and having a good time. The second type is almost looking for a fight. Maybe they're mean mugging, calling you a fag, shouldering you as they walk by, posturing, up in your face because you spilled some of your drink on their shoe - they're clearly not having a good time, not going over well with the women, and instead they behave like thugs.

Insecure men believe that if they can somehow demonstrate toughness, that they'll sort of reestablish themselves in the pecking order and women will be like, "Wow, he called that other guy half his size a fag! How macho! For a second I thought he was a wimp, but that took testosterone! He's alpha! I want to have his children."

I think some people on this site might believe that to be true so this post is warranted.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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