"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dont do this when ur out at a bar!

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I was at this bar last night..and this girl next to me dancing..with some Hick..sorry for if there are hicks on here.


had this piece or string or hair on her back...so I pulled it off..anyways he was a pretty big dude.....she was like Oh thanks.and laughs..he is like what a fag.....

she immeadiatly lost interest in him....and her and her friend took off..

why? because he showes his insecurity all in one right there :)

dont be that guy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good to see the rules that applied in high school no longer apply to attracting women.

I wonder if that guy learned his lesson? Probably not. So many of those tough guys are used to getting all of the attention, mostly from behaving like ogres. Well, I guess their approach has its limitations, especially when the goal is to meet and attract friendly, confident, and presumably intelligent women.

Thanks for the anecdote!
 
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lol hellboy... But look, I know you said something back to that dude, frivolousz21. Take sh1t from no one.
 
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the purpose of this post is what now ? Don't call other guys fags ? Thanks, bro. You're such a help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the purpose of this post is telling you dont act tuff when u know ur a *****! :)
 
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but are you sure thats is why the hoes left him.....maybe they were looking for an exit...I dont see what he did so wrong
 
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IN FYCKING SEUCURITY! DO YOU GUYS HAVE NO EXPIERENCE WITH WOMEN??

why on Earth would you get jealous or try to act hard over a guy pulling a hair off a girls shirt tht u just met?

do u get it now?
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
IN FYCKING SEUCURITY! DO YOU GUYS HAVE NO EXPIERENCE WITH WOMEN??
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" LOL "

It's true. Go to a big, crowded bar and you will see at least two types of men. The first type is talking to women and having a good time. The second type is almost looking for a fight. Maybe they're mean mugging, calling you a fag, shouldering you as they walk by, posturing, up in your face because you spilled some of your drink on their shoe - they're clearly not having a good time, not going over well with the women, and instead they behave like thugs.

Insecure men believe that if they can somehow demonstrate toughness, that they'll sort of reestablish themselves in the pecking order and women will be like, "Wow, he called that other guy half his size a fag! How macho! For a second I thought he was a wimp, but that took testosterone! He's alpha! I want to have his children."

I think some people on this site might believe that to be true so this post is warranted.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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