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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't cheat.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I sort of see your point, but I'd say......... don't commit manslaughter.
She couldn't not have said anything more effective to ensure the maximum chance that he'd be severely harmed or killed. It turned out being the latter in this case.
She couldn't not have said anything more effective to ensure the maximum chance that he'd be severely harmed or killed. It turned out being the latter in this case.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Damn, the guy was flattering and flirtatious to a woman who says that she had no friends before meeting him and she goes off and calls him a rapist. But then again he must not have been the brightest bulb to be sitting in a truck with her while she is just wearing a bathrobe in front of her house!!! WTF was he thinking??!!! 
seems he was a deadbeat dad and husband. and he killed somebody
i think he should have gotten 10 years probation, and her 5 years
depending on thier character
the law isn't about punishement, its about justice
is sending a good person who made a mistake to jail justice?
i think he should have gotten 10 years probation, and her 5 years
depending on thier character
the law isn't about punishement, its about justice
is sending a good person who made a mistake to jail justice?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
It probably won't happen, but I hope this sets a precedent for punishing women who falsely cry rape. Currently it's pretty much just something to do if they're pissed off.
I use to live in Arlington and Texas is one of the few places where you can legally shoot someone on your property after dark even if they aren't necessarily threatening you. Anyway what this show is how AFC's have bought into and overreact to the rape myth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
ketostix said:
Note to self: Do not sarge married women at their homes after dark in Arlington Texas....
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For once, I agree with SmoothTalker (on the value of labor unions he's dead wrongSmoothTalker said:
). Maybe this will set the precedent for us men being able to Sue! when a female cries rape days, if not weeks, after the supposed rape. You can sue on the grounds of her putting your life in jeopardy, mental anguish, and stress, having to watch your back at all times for some unexpected ambush from an overreacting male acquaintance of hers. She feeds him and the whole world lies, he kills me. Loss of freedom. Paranoia."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Damn, that reminds me of the movie unfaithful.
I would rather say, don't have an affair with a married women because these are the things that come out of them.
That could easily be guys that venture throughout this site day in and day out.
I would rather say, don't have an affair with a married women because these are the things that come out of them.
That could easily be guys that venture throughout this site day in and day out.