“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont Chase Love

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Tell me what you guys think,

What is really the POINT of falling "in love" or "loving" a girl who "loves" me back when fundamentally they only "love" me for the knowledge I've implemented on them because I know that I wouldn't get the women I want without implementing said knowledge.

Personally, I wouldn't be deeply satisfied knowing that this "love" that I've so called earned was developed on the fundamental basis of strategic manoeuvres and equations.

This leads me to my main point. If that is how one attains "love," then does love REALLY truly exist in the human condition? Or is it a manufactured thing like everything else?

It seems to ME PERSONALLY, the ones who are here seeking to find love with these equations (i use "equations" for simplicities sake - meaning everything on sosuave) in the end are completing a fools errand. And that they are seeking something that doesn't even exist - love.

In my personal endeavours - and I'm very young so maybe I need more experience - I've found that LOVE should not be the focus or goal of ones life because your chasing a non existent concept. And I find that MEN and WOMEN all over the globe perpetuate the need to create manufactured "love" to try and attain this idealized concept that we can truly never grasp.

Obviously we need to have secks with women. We would go insane without it. But I think even worse then abstinence is our pursuit of 'love'. We add to our insanity when we chase women for LOVE.

I know a couple things

1. Love always ends in hurt - the only way to avoid that is to die before you stop loving a girl, but even then you end up not being with her.

2. Women don't love you. They love the knowledge you've implemented.

3. Once your cast is opened and the knowledge is tossed aside they will leave you.

4. If you choose to maintain the implemented knowledge with said girl indefinitely and for the entire duration of the relationship eventually leading to forever, that seems like an exhaustive life, so why would you want that type of 'love' anyway.


In conclusion, make your life the pursuit of something else because love is an idealized fickle b*tch and pursing it will leave you hurt, exhausted and will perpetuate your want for it. Don't fall into the progressive nature of wanting love.

use the knowledge to get secks.

and LOVE something OTHER then women.

Comments, thoughts, criticisms are always welcome.

Thanks for reading.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree with not putting love before everything else. However, I'm not going to close myself off on one of life's greatest experiences.

1. Love always ends in hurt - the only way to avoid that is to die before you stop loving a girl, but even then you end up not being with her.
Same with everything else. Going with this logic we might as well not enjoy anything because it's all going to end one day. Dwelling on that is pointless. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts. We can argue about how women don't really love us, love doesn't exists, etc. all we want but at the end of the day we're still going to feel the emotions. Instead of restricting myself I'd rather open myself up to the experience, enjoy it in the moment, and not be attached to its outcome. Love when it's appropriate and let it go when necessary. Here's a great post on the topic http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/love/
 

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i know lol, im just hurting right now.

let me have this hahahah

good point though deep down i know im with you on this one actually.
 
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