“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dont Chase Love

narcissist

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Tell me what you guys think,

What is really the POINT of falling "in love" or "loving" a girl who "loves" me back when fundamentally they only "love" me for the knowledge I've implemented on them because I know that I wouldn't get the women I want without implementing said knowledge.

Personally, I wouldn't be deeply satisfied knowing that this "love" that I've so called earned was developed on the fundamental basis of strategic manoeuvres and equations.

This leads me to my main point. If that is how one attains "love," then does love REALLY truly exist in the human condition? Or is it a manufactured thing like everything else?

It seems to ME PERSONALLY, the ones who are here seeking to find love with these equations (i use "equations" for simplicities sake - meaning everything on sosuave) in the end are completing a fools errand. And that they are seeking something that doesn't even exist - love.

In my personal endeavours - and I'm very young so maybe I need more experience - I've found that LOVE should not be the focus or goal of ones life because your chasing a non existent concept. And I find that MEN and WOMEN all over the globe perpetuate the need to create manufactured "love" to try and attain this idealized concept that we can truly never grasp.

Obviously we need to have secks with women. We would go insane without it. But I think even worse then abstinence is our pursuit of 'love'. We add to our insanity when we chase women for LOVE.

I know a couple things

1. Love always ends in hurt - the only way to avoid that is to die before you stop loving a girl, but even then you end up not being with her.

2. Women don't love you. They love the knowledge you've implemented.

3. Once your cast is opened and the knowledge is tossed aside they will leave you.

4. If you choose to maintain the implemented knowledge with said girl indefinitely and for the entire duration of the relationship eventually leading to forever, that seems like an exhaustive life, so why would you want that type of 'love' anyway.


In conclusion, make your life the pursuit of something else because love is an idealized fickle b*tch and pursing it will leave you hurt, exhausted and will perpetuate your want for it. Don't fall into the progressive nature of wanting love.

use the knowledge to get secks.

and LOVE something OTHER then women.

Comments, thoughts, criticisms are always welcome.

Thanks for reading.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree with not putting love before everything else. However, I'm not going to close myself off on one of life's greatest experiences.

1. Love always ends in hurt - the only way to avoid that is to die before you stop loving a girl, but even then you end up not being with her.
Same with everything else. Going with this logic we might as well not enjoy anything because it's all going to end one day. Dwelling on that is pointless. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts. We can argue about how women don't really love us, love doesn't exists, etc. all we want but at the end of the day we're still going to feel the emotions. Instead of restricting myself I'd rather open myself up to the experience, enjoy it in the moment, and not be attached to its outcome. Love when it's appropriate and let it go when necessary. Here's a great post on the topic http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/love/
 

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i know lol, im just hurting right now.

let me have this hahahah

good point though deep down i know im with you on this one actually.
 
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