ashman1
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how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dont Call Her ?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tha Realnezz
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^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
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Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
Once or twice a day??
I have been calling once a week max.
ARrocket
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Too much.Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
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// its how long the convo lasts..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I never call unless she called me and i missed it.
I think it's mainly younger girls that like this, and it's because they want the challenge. Their egos are still fragile and they want to be validated by knowing that they can get the guy.ashman1 said:how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
This kind of strategy (being aloof/not calling regularly) works best on women under 22-23. For women older than that, it's a lot more about what you say when you DO call.
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It's because they have AFC's calling them twice a day every day. So when you don't call you are a challenge and you are different than all the others.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.