ashman1
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how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dont Call Her ?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tha Realnezz
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^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
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Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
Once or twice a day??
I have been calling once a week max.
ARrocket
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Too much.Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
Tha Realnezz
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// its how long the convo lasts..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I never call unless she called me and i missed it.
I think it's mainly younger girls that like this, and it's because they want the challenge. Their egos are still fragile and they want to be validated by knowing that they can get the guy.ashman1 said:how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
This kind of strategy (being aloof/not calling regularly) works best on women under 22-23. For women older than that, it's a lot more about what you say when you DO call.
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It's because they have AFC's calling them twice a day every day. So when you don't call you are a challenge and you are different than all the others.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.