ashman1
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how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dont Call Her ?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tha Realnezz
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^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
My Name is Nobody
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Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
Once or twice a day??
I have been calling once a week max.
ARrocket
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Too much.Tha Realnezz said:^Cuz they're jackasses basically.
There's no real answer,i know they dont like being called more than they call.
I only call once or twice a day after that just returns...
Tha Realnezz
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// its how long the convo lasts..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
Its pretty hard to keep chics that think theyre your gf from calling and txting 20 times a day if you didnt notice..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I never call unless she called me and i missed it.
I think it's mainly younger girls that like this, and it's because they want the challenge. Their egos are still fragile and they want to be validated by knowing that they can get the guy.ashman1 said:how come girls always like the guys that DONT call them ? :nervous:
This kind of strategy (being aloof/not calling regularly) works best on women under 22-23. For women older than that, it's a lot more about what you say when you DO call.
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It's because they have AFC's calling them twice a day every day. So when you don't call you are a challenge and you are different than all the others.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.
I'm with the guy who says only call them back.