Don't bytch and complain if you're a willing "victim".

[9Volt]

You can't bytch and complain about a chick or chicks doing you dirty if you're your own worst enemy.

If you're a co-dependent, validation seeking, willing "victim" to a toxic chick let alone a series of them the problem isn't the toxic chicks. The problem is you.

 

[sazc]

you assume the ability for someone to be self introspective........IMO that doesnt happen with the majority of people in general.

 

[Von]

you assume the ability for someone to be self introspective........IMO that doesnt happen with the majority of people in general.

True but you can always control your behaviour

 

[sazc]

True but you can always control your behaviour

I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically

 

[TheProspect]

Act like a victim and surely you'll be treated as one.

 

[Von]

I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically

Owning is for alpha

Whinning for beta

Life throw lemons? Make lemonade

 

[JohnChops]

I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically

People do not want to take responsibility for their own actions, they will always blame someone else instead of just owning up and moving the hell on with their life. People **** up, tis how life works.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Owning is for alpha

Whinning for beta

Life throw lemons? Make lemonade

You need sugar to make lemonade though.