"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't bytch and complain if you're a willing "victim".

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You can't bytch and complain about a chick or chicks doing you dirty if you're your own worst enemy.

If you're a co-dependent, validation seeking, willing "victim" to a toxic chick let alone a series of them the problem isn't the toxic chicks. The problem is you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you assume the ability for someone to be self introspective........IMO that doesnt happen with the majority of people in general.
True but you can always control your behaviour
 

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True but you can always control your behaviour
I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically
Owning is for alpha

Whinning for beta

Life throw lemons? Make lemonade
 

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I wholeheartedly agree, however, more people I know tend to use the phrase "i wouldn't have behaved/reacted/acted that way if person X wouldn't have done this/that"

Lots of blaming and finger pointing, not a lot of "owning" going on.... Typically
People do not want to take responsibility for their own actions, they will always blame someone else instead of just owning up and moving the hell on with their life. People **** up, tis how life works.
 
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