"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@corrector I am a Christian as well but there is a reason why there are so many Incels in the church. Just replace single mother programming with moral programming to the point where you are unable to calibrate to the realities of nature.
The devil wants to be incel so I can get mad at God and watch porn. It is the devil's fault, not God's fault.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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@corrector and @ShePays... You two.. Can you guys get a room already? This is like the third thread in a month you two have been going back and forth attacking each other. That's uncool and undudely. Respectfully, quit it. We're all here to help each other, and we're all allowed to have a difference of opinion.
What are the other two threads?
 

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As much as I'd like to put ShePays on my ignore list, the advise about acting school and the mental prison is still interesting as it reminds me of good types of dystopian fiction. There is a book known as the "Brave New World" (1931) that portrays a dystopian society where everyone gets everything they want and is always happy and are all programmed to die at the same age but independent thought is forbidden. That book sounds more like a prison if society ever gets that advance. There are no incels in that society, but it's not one I'd want to be in since I'd value celibacy over losing independent thought and being as a herd as everyone else, or being common. This is the stuff for worldly people to engage in because it's mundane. No wonder the author would have used sex as a stupifier in that book. There are other dystopian movies out like Gattica (1997) or Equilibrium (2002) and Fahrenheit 451 (2018) that have social orders that are real mass socially constructed mental prisons. There is no shortage of these types of dystopian worlds in fiction, but incel is normally not a thread in those types of movies.
 

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Personally, i haven't read all of your posts, and suspect you haven't read all of mine, nor would I expect you to. However, my primary frustration with YOU personally, was the impression that you were playing games, to just keep me engaged with you, that you were being intentionally dodgy, and i didn't care for it. You talk like a b!tch, like I'm supposed to know everything you've written elsewhere, that withholding information relevant to one conversation is cool, because it was revealed in a different conversation, with someone else. That's either the most feminine, contorted, deluded, self-absorbed act of narcissism to ever come from a "dude," or you're just a sad lonely person looking for attention. Either way, I'm out.

My objection, from the beginning, was with your adoption of that rancid incel label to describe whatever you are, but you clung to it, insistently, while insisting it wasn't what everyone knows it to be. I was wrong; you deserve the label you've chosen.

Fvck off. You're on my ignore list, going forward, whether or not I'm on yours. From now on I intend to automatically place anyone identifying himself as an "incel" on my ignore list. I've run out of patience with you people.
Thank you for showing your true colours all along.
 
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I don't think it's so much that some men hate the incels so much as they like to shame them for incompetence, perceived/misunderstood or actual. And there is a difference. "You did x and y? Oh man what a dumbass" shouldn't always be interpreted as "I hate you"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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