I've come to realize that sometimes i can actually CONTROL her interest level.
I've learned what drives it up, and I SAVE those moments for when certain times.
Here is how I drive it up: Social Proof, witty jokes, neg hits, and above all being a mystery and a challenge. That's basic .
Why do i WAIT to unleash this stuff?
Because women looking for a relationship leading to marriage create an inner world in which their fantasy plays out SLOWLY.
This is their drama.
When they're with you theyre wondering if you are husband material or not. And in their minds, husband material is something that BUILDS.
Come to think of it, in rare cases I allow the level to go DOWN. I realize that she's getting ahead of herself. She is becoming INFATUATED with me but I know that won't last.
So I call less, and hold back.
Her interest levels off for sure, but here comes mr. mystery/challenge again. I let my personality out of its hibernation and her interest level goes back up.
See..? This is drama. Just when she was unsure if you were husband material, you came out of the pack and PROVED that you are worth her attentions.
The challenge was building subconsciously.
Sometimes only TIME can build it. So dont build up interest level too soon.
I've learned what drives it up, and I SAVE those moments for when certain times.
Here is how I drive it up: Social Proof, witty jokes, neg hits, and above all being a mystery and a challenge. That's basic .
Why do i WAIT to unleash this stuff?
Because women looking for a relationship leading to marriage create an inner world in which their fantasy plays out SLOWLY.
This is their drama.
When they're with you theyre wondering if you are husband material or not. And in their minds, husband material is something that BUILDS.
Come to think of it, in rare cases I allow the level to go DOWN. I realize that she's getting ahead of herself. She is becoming INFATUATED with me but I know that won't last.
So I call less, and hold back.
Her interest levels off for sure, but here comes mr. mystery/challenge again. I let my personality out of its hibernation and her interest level goes back up.
See..? This is drama. Just when she was unsure if you were husband material, you came out of the pack and PROVED that you are worth her attentions.
The challenge was building subconsciously.
Sometimes only TIME can build it. So dont build up interest level too soon.