Don't believe everything you read on the internet [ MUST READ POST]

[Gamisch]

Why would I neg OP? He came out of his closet, but he doesn't make outrageous claims?



Because I was frustrated with women back in my twenties and HS and I still like to discuss topics pertaining to that and hopefully help people out. However, you can note that my topic creation has dwindled down greatly, so you are partially correct. This has happened to a lot of posters on this site, so it is not just me. I tried to look up Rollo's account history and I saw a lot of activity from posters that don't post as much today. At the end of the day, guys on this site want to be sold a dream with a big fat pink bow on top with a box of chocolates on the side. Go ahead and believe the snake oil RP posters like @We_ArE_VeNOM obviously over-exaggerating or lying about their dating life or continue to mope and cry about how ALL WOMEN are Meanie BUTTS with the Red pill squad. At the end of the day, there's still some quality posts and posters on this site, but it is dwindling down and eventually this site will be a sad knockoff Misc Bodybuilding forum.

Here you go again for no reason you pull Venom into this, as you just love to tear people down along with you huh? But oke.


No OP does NOT have a point. As @ThisIsSparta said, why waste time telling men you are a 1%er only to come out as the opposite? OFCOURSE men in a men space like this will look up to that. Its just a small niche community..as with any community, it up to the participants (both mods and posters!!) to keep the forum "clean". (You are actually shyting on the whole concept of moderation, like degenerates shyte on the concept of a policeforce)

You and Op are more like the "criminals " overhere, insincere men who troll the forum. I'd ban the two of you if i was a mod long time ago ,but oke. You DO behave better lately tho..

I am not busy figuring out whether your story is true or not, all I'm after is knowledge I can apply to my own life. E.g I'd like to hear which stocks I should invest in. Yeah , stupid me for believing another human being who tells me he knows a thing or two about investing. Or boxing. Or ...women..

Eventually the lie will come out , that's the BIGGEST lesson I've learned from this lol.

I bet OP felt relieved. Judging by his pathetic long azz posts he's been laying awake from all this. Like a cheater, or a fugitive killer on the run is relieved once they get caught, or like in this case: they turn themselves in lol.

And you should shyte on OP because that's what men do..in real life we would beat him up, or ghost him. You would hang even closer to and with the untrustworthy traitor...says enough about you.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

You want a cookie? You still heavily project your insecurities on this forum, so are you really happy though?

Im pretty content with what I have. I had to put women in the back burner to be where I am today. Now that I chased excellence, I'm here polishing seduction, as you know I have vasectomy so no woman can trap me. But I'm definitely not you mad at the red pill.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Here you go again for no reason you pull Venom into this, as you just love to tear people down along with you huh? But oke.

What he did was muchhhhhh worse than what OP did.

No OP does NOT have a point. As @ThisIsSparta said, why waste time telling men you are a 1%er only to come out as the opposite? OFCOURSE men in a men space like this will look up to that. Its just a small niche community..as with any community, it up to the participants (both mods and posters!!) to keep the forum "clean". You and Op are more like the "criminals " overhere, insincere men who troll the forum. I'd ban the two of you if i was a mod long time ago ,but oke. You DO behave better lately tho..

When did I say I was a 1% man? I am not sure what you think I am exactly lying about? My income is achievable, my lay count is like 55 so achievable, my gym physique is achievable, my dating advice isn't outrageous. I get it, I can come across as an @$$hole with some of my topics, but it is just tough love from my perspective.

m pretty content with what I have. I have to put women in the back burner to be where I am today. Now that I chased excellence, I'm here polishing seduction, as you know I have vasectomy so no woman can trap me. But I'm definitely not you mad at the red pill.

Listen, I don't care what you do, and we can have civilized discussion in the future if needed. However, I do not like random John Wick wannabes name dropping me to get some last-minute sucker punch in. If you have a problem with me, block me or provide a decent rebuttal to my point, but please do not resort to the childish ghetto behavior of what @ThisIsSparta did.

 

[characternote]

I'm not gonna lay the boot in, but it was surely obvious that this was all fantasy and like @Murk says, the only thing of note is how so many people couldn't seem to tell lol. The clearly fake profile pic, the non stop mention of being an 'aLpHa MaLe' in about 95% of posts (what actual 'alpha' would do that). The endless 'living like p0rn star' posts etc. It was like reading posts written by 'Jay' from 'the inbetweeners' for any other Brits who get the reference

Only thing he's right about is how there's others on here living a 2nd fantasy life which again is super obvious, at least to me.

I shouldn't be surprised. It's like when I watch infields and footage from that 'john anthony' guy (you know, the guy with the 'five thousand lay count made up of mostly teenage models' or whatever his current claim is). People will literally watch his 'infield' with their own eyes and STILL come to the conclusion that he's a pimp who can get any girl he wants and teach them stuff despite watching him creeping girls out, awkwardly asking if he can touch their butts and then nervous laughing again, almost NEVER getting any sort of attraction from the girl (kissing, flirting etc). A complete lack of charisma. I see a guy who is literally worse at this stuff than most guys I know yet so many ppl on youtube and forums like this who don't seem to have any sort of social skills or critical thinking skills think he's a 'slayer'.

Similar with 'Roosh'! I can't believe that there's still so many ppl on here who think he was some sort of ladies man! It's flabbergasting lol (maybe I have an unfair advantage having watched some of his very rare 'infields' back in the day where his autism was jumping out of the screen) but even reading his posts and his general behaviour should be enough, yet clearly isn't.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Why would I neg OP? He came out of his closet

He´s gay!? That explains a lot.
Im just joking op, not interested in picking a fight.

Go ahead and believe the snake oil RP posters like @We_ArE_VeNOM obviously over-exaggerating or lying about their dating life

Who would lie about sucking the titties of a 74 year old woman? My bro is legit.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

What he did was muchhhhhh worse than what OP did.



When did I say I was a 1% man? I am not sure what you think I am exactly lying about? My income is achievable, my lay count is like 55 so achievable, my gym physique is achievable, my dating advice isn't outrageous. I get it, I can come across as an @$$hole with some of my topics, but it is just tough love from my perspective.



Listen, I don't care what you do, and we can have civilized discussion in the future if needed. However, I do not like random John Wick wannabes name dropping me to get some last-minute sucker punch in. If you have a problem with me, block me or provide a decent rebuttal to my point, but please do not resort to the childish ghetto behavior of what @ThisIsSparta did.

Brother, but shouldn't care what a random person in the interwebs writes about you trying to "sucker punch you" hahahaha wtf, you need to get some friends in real life my dude

 

[CornbreadFed]

Brother, but shouldn't care what a random person in the interwebs writes about you trying to "sucker punch you" hahahaha wtf, you need to get some friends in real life my dude

Really! I think a 45-year-old guy patiently waiting for any given moment to sucker punch a poster on a website forum needs some friends in real life? I guess we can have different opinions then lol.

 

[member162951]

The only thing i lied about was being wealthy and being a **** slanging machine of a man with a rippes physique.

Weren't you the one who posted how you became exclusive with a plate you were f*cking for two years? That she was now your girlfriend and spinning plates was for losers? You created a thread about it which was quite detailed.

That was a huge lie, but whatever man I admire you for coming clean, took a lot of guts.

I'm curious why you still have the same avatar though since admittedly it's not you.

 

[Solomon]

The truth is, no really successful guy whos good with women needs or would spend time on Sosuave. why? they have instagrams and other social media where people with good levles of self esteem hang out. Capable men dont sit around talking about stuff, --they make moves.

Most of what i said on here besides where I came up and my upbringing is bull****. I never had all these plates or women, and I dont have a girlfriend. The profile pic is not mine. im not wealthy. i make like 30k a year and live at home with my family.

I did have abundance with women when i was younger but mostly did not do much with them besides the typical makeout, and fingering..why? because at some point i couldnt hard with one girl,.. albeit while she was a hot polish chick, i didnt find her attractive as i was into a diff typ eof chick at that age, mostly puerto rican latinas.. becuase of that one incident, i used to be real anxious around sex

in total i have only had successful sex with 2 women.. all the other times i either jus stopped at making out or fingering and an arguement or me getting angry at them would cause them to leave. while i did have some model quality women in my life, there snothing to brag about when id idnt bone all of 'em.

i turned to viagra for help and it helped quite a bit.

The reality is, i was always a skinny/smaller guy than average. nowadays i am considered average but im still only about 160 lbs

Ive found myself frustrated mostly becuase of online dating. Going from having abundance to going to trying dating apps left me feeling horrible, sad and undesirable. I didnt understand why people were ignring me on online dating. it was very painful.. iremember it vividly, how angry i would be at the women who barely gave me any attention and didnt take me seriously. I even remember messaging some girls and asking them what they think was the issue.

But the reality is,... my abundance didnt change outta nowhere. what happened was I went from being very confident and masculine to more feminine after being mentally abused by an older friend i used to hang with. he was a crazy BPD type who grew up motherless and with an abusive father. i was scared o fhim evr since he attacked me one time .. but i knew i would always beat his ass if we ever had a real fight, which i later did. but by that time, the damage was done. i was changed so much as a person that i felt ugly , i felt weak, ifelt like a b.itch.. i became sensitive and i developed deep anxiety..

it took me YEARS to recover from that.. but i still always never felt the same..
now fastforward maybe 9-10 years from that time and i still dont feel the way i used to at that age. at that age i felt like women liked me/girls liked me.. and because of that, i reaped what i sowed.. and had an abundance of women.numbers in my phone, etc.. and ofc while i wasnt banging all of them, i relished greatly off of the fact that i had options and that was enough for me.. in th esame way how hot chicks operate... and why they dont care about 90% of guys

Now, the part that is true is my knowledge about women. Where did it come from? jsu having alot of dating experience/and women friends.. Having women friends was some of the best times in my life.. even tho i cut of all my friends because i fell in love with a hoe who played me like a fool and while she did love me, it was a narcissistc type of love, conditional, etc. plus i ruined it because of anger and jealousy.. in my mind she was f-ing one of my friends.. and she prob did..

So where does RAzorrambo go from here? Nothing im practicing nofap, doing kegels, quit porn.. which i came to really enjoy fapping and porn. its osme of th emost beautiful gratifying stuff ever - its hard to think how its not one of the best hobbies in the world.. i mean u never get what u can out of porn out of real sexual experiences unless u manage to get like a buncha hot superficial looking chicks together and have variety of threesomes or something..

Mostly, in my life, ifeel like I was cursed by God or something.. but reality is it was being introduced to computers from a young age + porn that really messed up my experiences with women.. and while i have had more women and more dates than your average guy, it means nothing when you cant hang onto them.

like i said only bange 2 girls officially. despite having a ton of great girls in my life --

Nowadays i try to find sht.. and yes, I have had experiences where i got fired for alking to multiple chicks in my workplace and getting one jealous.. and usually at times i become one of the main guys girls talk about and whisper amonst themselves and older ladies talk about in diff environments.. but i think its mainly because besides having decent looks, and knowing how to dress/smell nice.. i know how t really play that charm... something ive always had

My current job im getting noticed by women agian, i get so many stares and looks.. theres 2 young girls who i know who at times if elt like both like me but --whats the point when im a mess? i cant really move forward with anyone of them properly becuas ei fear so much. i fear being heartbroken again ,i fear not being good in bed, i fear alot. i have premature ejaculation and while i can get hard with viagra, i dont trust my ability as much.. but regradless, im gonna try again, just not wit the girls at work.. cuz like i said, i have a really jeallous and angry mind.. and alwas suspect them to be talkin to another guy at work and sleepin with them... alot of that sht is deeply rooted to my mom cheating on my dad

Sometimes i still struggle with inadequacy as im a smaller guy (height is 5'10 but smaller head, smaller hands,smaller frame, 160 lbs) I Just look smaller than most guys/weaker. Infact, some people think im like 18-22 when im 31. Thats why i get alot of young girls staring at me and sht but its pathetic lol im afriad to even do anythingwiht anyone.. i want to but its likei fear success in a way.

Thoughts? and anyone else want to come clean about their stories?

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Op is not lying though the real players are not on sosauve, the real players are not on reddit, or watching redpill podcasts. Matter fact in my experience the real players would think it's "Corny" or "lame" I get it there are outliers but real players are living their best lives and banging the women that they want

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

 

[Manure Spherian]

I'm curious why you still have the same avatar though since admittedly it's not you.

I’m wondering the same.

 

[CornbreadFed]

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

Welcome to the Internet, take a seat lol.

 

[Gamisch]

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Op is not lying though the real players are not on sosauve, the real players are not on reddit, or watching redpill podcasts. Matter fact in my experience the real players would think it's "Corny" or "lame" I get it there are outliers but real players are living their best lives and banging the women that they want

On this forum in 2023 I bet only 3% of the members are banging the women that they want while 30% are banging anything they can get and 67% are incels or guys who ain't banging shyt

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

Too many people are over idolizing this Perfect Player Guy when it doesn't take a genius to get laid. If you have been in the game for two plus years and still struggling on getting laid, then you need advanced help at that point.

The issues men seem to have beyond the novice level are:

1). Having sex with hotter girls or girls they want
2). Relationship/Marriage Problems

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

Too many people are over idolizing this Perfect Player Guy when it doesn't take a genius to get laid. If you have been in the game for two plus years and still struggling on getting laid, then you need advanced help at that point.

The issues men seem to have beyond the novice level are:

1). Having sex with hotter girls or girls they want
2). Relationship/Marriage Problems

The fun is not getting laid, the fun is developing the skills no seduce irl, the chase is way fir fun than the catch.

You can get laid with 4s but that's not impressive.

 

[CornbreadFed]

You can get laid with 4s but that's not impressive.

The truth is that your typical Joe with a high lay count is predominantly fvcking 4s and 5s for the bulk of his encounters. This is why I am not impressed by. High lay counts because it is statistically impossible to fvck 50 plus women that are all 8s and above. There’s a reason for the existence of the term 49er. I go to the grocery store and see all of these <5s single moms, so one is fvcking them.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Que???? Just speak the F up bro. What you doing here? Being the blue pill /normie conscious of the forum? Or just another troll?

Such a shame . This thread does kinda connects to the thread about people/men hate to see their fellow men get better.

But hey, yall teaching me a great lesson so even this isn't necessarily wasted energy. I know by heart that most men are fake bytches. Its oke. Doesn't mean we are ALL fake h0es lol.

Next is probably @Jesse Pinkman who actually already came out with a similar type of confession that started with this paragraph:My confession, dark past in game full of lies, and message to all who have been following my journey.

Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

Having read a lot of your journal and commend you for putting your balls on the line , I can't help but get the feeling a lot of these sets are seeing you as a dancing monkey its critical from the word go a woman sees you as a sexual option and not just some random dude blindly trying his luck...

www.sosuave.net

Hey what ever floats y'all boats..to me being real is just as save as being fake is to you guys: nobody will ever know who is who, might as well be honest and actually learn something...

I am lost, how did my name get dragged into this again?

 

[Solomon]

Makes me wonder which category YOU belong to..

There's are very very VERY few men banging "all the multiple women they want". Most men are either settling with a woman whose less attractive, or indeed banging whatever comes their way, which includes dryspells.

A smart occupied dude can also be found here, as he might be aware of male female dynamics and how he needs to sharpen his tools. Some men join reddit, others are here. Forums are a real thing every since the internet exits.

That uber player you're talking about merely exists. Besides that in order to joinh SS you dont have to be a player, just an above average interest in women is more than enough. If that " player" would ever join a forum, this place/ forum will probably have the most affinity with his lifestyle.

I am im the category of your socalled 30 %:: i have had plenty of relationships , made much more mistakes and I'm catching a fish every now and then. Nothing special.

But again, lets get this question out of the way: what category do YOU belong to?

Seems my comment has trigged you, not sure why cause it was not aimed at you, I was speaking in general, so yes two things can be right guys can be on this forum occupied with life wanting to talk about female nature and improve and also guys who are the creme da la creme are not posting on sosuave(I have yet to see Austin Dunham here ha ha).

First I have always been a 30% guy not ashamed to admit it. I've banged fatties, average chicks, girls that use to model, party girls, nerdy girls, SmokeShows, milfs, etc. There are men who have never heard any Game or RP concepts yet they are doing just fine in the real world. There is nothing wrong with that, the goal should always be to be better that's one of the reasons I'm still here!

I've been on this forum for 15 years since a young punk 24-year-old kid, I started in the clouds soaking up the knowledge then signed up I wrote field reports but even back then I used to post pictures and videos in some of them, not to brag but because of people like OP I wanted to be held accountable because I really wanted to figure this shyt out and wanted to be taken seriously as I was taken this journey of self-improvement seriously (some of the pics/videos are still up just go through my posts history). I've gone out with half a dozen guys throughout the years who have vouced for me, most of them haven't posted in years why? they are either married or living their best lives now. @Borknagar still posts and he and I had a few adventures over 10 years ago and he can tell you I'm not a super player and that I've always been a networker trying to build a social circle since back then. How many guys can you say you have met up with in person on here and are willing to put your real-life reputation on the line? Have you had a 18 year old kid message you asking you to go to frat parties with him and you're in your 30s? Have you consoled a man who had a mental breakdown because he got rejected in person that you met of this forum?


Once again I never claimed to be a Super player, Alpha, High Value Man or any of that. Have I hung around some in the last 15 years? Aye! Have Had epic moments when it comes to women? More than the average man. Have I also had tons of failures in the last 15 years? you bet your 2 left shoes I have, and is through my greatest failures that I have learned to persevere, press on, and become better. Life has its ebbs and flows some seasons you can't lose and some seasons you can't win no matter how hard you try. But it's through your darkest moments that you will find out who you really are as a man. I have been in the abyss of darkness that most men cannot fathom and it's not by my strength that I'm here but by the Grace of God!

I will say this again, the guys(Top 1%) that are truly living in abundance have beautiful women chasing after them are not on forums, reddit etc they are living their lives. This has been my experience they are not coming on sosuave. We should all strive to be the best version of ourselves not for the sake of women but the sake of wanting to best men that we can be. It's our purpose as men to change the world and be the change we want it to be!

Cheers!

P.S.
Also let me add that OP should face some consequences for lying
As a guy who has met up with half a dozen guys on this site once again
This was our way of holding each other accountable because if a guy was talking that player shyt and was a fraud we could call it out
Now a days anyone can come out the blue and claim all these results with no field reports, no evidence (pictures&Videos) nothing. I remember 2009 if you were popped big shyt you had to be able to back it up with proof or had people vouch for you

Things have changed

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Am I the only naive fool who actually seriously listens to advice on forums and in youtube videos and is always honest about my results?
When I compare my results to guys like John Anthony or Playing With Fire they seem so lackluster, so I don't know what to believe anymore.
Still, there must be more optimal and less optimal ways to communicate with women. That is what forums are good for, you gather data, experiment, analyze and make conclusions on how to improve your communication strategy. That is the game part. That is for turning "maybe" girls into "yes" girls. Nothing will turn a "no" girl into a "yes" girl.
But I don't see the point in making up fake stuff about yourself online, what do you gain from it?

Isn't John Anthony the guy whose laycount includes trans women and brasses (hookers)?

 

[Solomon]

I am lost, how did my name get dragged into this again?

Jesse keep doing what you're doing, you're one of the few members who I check for on this forum. People have always looked down on the field reporters but it's people like you that give this site credibility let the haters hater while we create!

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Seems my comment has trigged you, not sure why cause it was not aimed at you, I was speaking in general, so yes two things can be right guys can be on this forum occupied with life wanting to talk about female nature and improve and also guys who are the creme da la creme are not posting on sosuave(I have yet to see Austin Dunham here ha ha).

First I have always been a 30% guy not ashamed to admit it. I've banged fatties, average chicks, girls that use to model, party girls, nerdy girls, SmokeShows, milfs, etc. There are men who have never heard any Game or RP concepts yet they are doing just fine in the real world. There is nothing wrong with that, the goal should always be to be better that's one of the reasons I'm still here!

I've been on this forum for 15 years since a young punk 24-year-old kid, I started in the clouds soaking up the knowledge then signed up I wrote field reports but even back then I used to post pictures and videos in some of them, not to brag but because of people like OP I wanted to be held accountable because I really wanted to figure this shyt out and wanted to be taken seriously as I was taken this journey of self-improvement seriously (some of the pics/videos are still up just go through my posts history). I've gone out with half a dozen guys throughout the years who have vouced for me, most of them haven't posted in years why? they are either married or living their best lives now. @Borknagar still posts and he and I had a few adventures over 10 years ago and he can tell you I'm not a super player and that I've always been a networker trying to build a social circle since back then. How many guys can you say you have met up with in person on here and are willing to put your real-life reputation on the line? Have you had a 18 year old kid message you asking you to go to frat parties with him and you're in your 30s? Have you consoled a man who had a mental breakdown because he got rejected in person that you met of this forum?


Once again I never claimed to be a Super player, Alpha, High Value Man or any of that. Have I hung around some in the last 15 years? Aye! Have Had epic moments when it comes to women? More than the average man. Have I also had tons of failures in the last 15 years? you bet your 2 left shoes I have, and is through my greatest failures that I have learned to persevere, press on, and become better. Life has its ebbs and flows some seasons you can't lose and some seasons you can't win no matter how hard you try. But it's through your darkest moments that you will find out who you really are as a man. I have been in the abyss of darkness that most men cannot fathom and it's not by my strength that I'm here but by the Grace of God!

I will say this again, the guys(Top 1%) that are truly living in abundance have beautiful women chasing after them are not on forums, reddit etc they are living their lives. This has been my experience they are not coming on sosuave. We should all strive to be the best version of ourselves not for the sake of women but the sake of wanting to best men that we can be. It's our purpose as men to change the world and be the change we want it to be!

Cheers!

P.S.
Also let me add that OP should face some consequences for lying
As a guy who has met up with half a dozen guys on this site once again
This was our way of holding each other accountable because if a guy was talking that player shyt and was a fraud we could call it out
Now a days anyone can come out the blue and claim all these results with no field reports, no evidence (pictures&Videos) nothing. I remember 2009 if you were popped big shyt you had to be able to back it up with proof or had people vouch for you

Things have changed

Very good post actually.

I admitted have had many rejections, but I've also had a lot of successes too. I just work with what I've got.