"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don't be this guy.
- Thread starter Warlord
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ace of Flames
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wow, that guy is sad.
it blows my mind why he would stay with her. what an idiot...
it blows my mind why he would stay with her. what an idiot...
spider_007
Master Don Juan
GOD HELP THE WOMAN WHO DOES THAT TO ME
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
This Thursday on Fox: Wives With Knives!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SynTheUnscathed
Don Juan
Some ones been playing too much WoW....
hydrocodone
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hahahah, that was funny as hell, thats the perfect wife.i want her
alfadog
Don Juan
I went to college with that guy!
Oh my God, I went to college with that guy! I Engineered his senior project at Berklee College of Music in 1988. Damn what a small world! He was always a real quiet dude, never bothered anyone. Can't believe he wound up with a heffer like that. Wow, and I thought my Ex was psycho!!!
Oh my God, I went to college with that guy! I Engineered his senior project at Berklee College of Music in 1988. Damn what a small world! He was always a real quiet dude, never bothered anyone. Can't believe he wound up with a heffer like that. Wow, and I thought my Ex was psycho!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
alfadog
Don Juan
Brak, I swear to God! When Berklee College of Music did their first student CD release, Devin wrote one of the 10 songs that they picked. He Produced the track and I recorded and and mixed it. I almost fell out of my chair when I seen that clip. As soon as I saw his face I said, "hmmm, that looks like Dev"; and then when I saw the name on the screen, I just about choked. His parents moved to Santa Barbara, CA, when we were in college and they had money. I thought he'd land a sweetie, not some heffer on a Lorena Bobbit kick! Can you imagine that being out on the internet for the world to see?! I'm gonna save that clip so that whenever I feel down about a relationship, I can look at that and thank the lucky stars that it's not me! That clip was stamped 1994, hopefully he got out of that BAD BAD situation! UNBELIEVEABLE!!!
Yes but after turning on the T.V last week, this guy (and I use the term losely) is sadder.
http://www.youtube.com/w/American-Idol-5-girl-guy-funny?v=yvdu0x9hmfQ&search=American Idol worst
Ace of Flames
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hahaha i saw that guy on the show too. oh wow. i blame the family. you saw he had all females to go back to. no father figure, no male figure at all in his family. and all these girls are retards. they raised him like a girl! they even bought his clothes and cut his hair like a girl! wtf. psycho....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.