"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't be the guy who turns her off of sex

Leporello

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...it'll just make it more difficult for the rest of us.

Two cases: One, my friend (last seen in 'women are nuts' http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1352222#post1352222) just admitted to me that she was well on the way to finally having satisfying sex with a guy who isn't her bf, but she stopped it at the last minute.

'Why did you do that?' I asked her. 'You said your bf is so boring in bed he doesn't even talk'.

'Yes, but you know i don't like sex, so why risk my relationship?'

Now remember, she's only ever had sex with one guy. Saying that because she doesn't like sex with him, she doesn't like sex, is like saying that because you don't like to eat saurkraut you must not like food.

Case two, a girl called me for the third time this week wanting to come over and fvck. After we finished I teased her about it and she said 'Yeah, the first couple of guys I did it with had no idea what they were doing, and I kind of decided I wouldn't try it again'.

The moral of the story is: learn to be good in bed. Talk to them, find out what they want. The last thing we need is more girls who don't want to put out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thewarrior said:
okay, i'll help you out. i'll send my girls to you after i'm done.
You're so kind.
 
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