"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't be the guy who turns her off of sex

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...it'll just make it more difficult for the rest of us.

Two cases: One, my friend (last seen in 'women are nuts' http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1352222#post1352222) just admitted to me that she was well on the way to finally having satisfying sex with a guy who isn't her bf, but she stopped it at the last minute.

'Why did you do that?' I asked her. 'You said your bf is so boring in bed he doesn't even talk'.

'Yes, but you know i don't like sex, so why risk my relationship?'

Now remember, she's only ever had sex with one guy. Saying that because she doesn't like sex with him, she doesn't like sex, is like saying that because you don't like to eat saurkraut you must not like food.

Case two, a girl called me for the third time this week wanting to come over and fvck. After we finished I teased her about it and she said 'Yeah, the first couple of guys I did it with had no idea what they were doing, and I kind of decided I wouldn't try it again'.

The moral of the story is: learn to be good in bed. Talk to them, find out what they want. The last thing we need is more girls who don't want to put out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thewarrior said:
okay, i'll help you out. i'll send my girls to you after i'm done.
You're so kind.
 
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