"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Don't be mad."

evoke

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*sigh*

I just don't ****ing get it.

We hang out (known each other forever, were sorta getting back to where we were before we cut off contact from each other a few months ago). She tells me she had a good time, blah blah... So I call her saturday night, to invite her along for something I'm doing.

"I was out with my friends all day. I just wanna stay home tonight. I have off thursday (meaning she'll come out wednesday). Don't be mad."

So I call tonight.

"I was out with one of my co-workers (some chick, I heard her in the background) for dinner. I was just about to call you and let you know that I was just planning on staying home tonight. I know we sorta made plans (we didn't). Don't be mad."

I'd rather her just not answer the phone rather than shovel around these horse**** excuses, and why is she so concerned with me being mad? Why does she try to keep me on the phone so long, to tell me about her boring day?

I told her I'd call her this weekend, but I already made plans with someone who better appreciates my time. It's too damn bad, as I really liked this one.

**** it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Now, I am not a master don juan or a guru, but all I can tell you that if you have not been talking, fvckin, or dating for at least two years, dont have any amount of feeling for her, PERIOD. What you do, is everyday in your spare time, go out and get women. I have been reading Pooks articles and they have helped me become more of a man, but I am having a problem sealing the deal with women as far as sex is concerned, so I think seduction would work for me. Hey, you wanna start a boot camp? My goal is 20 approaches a week, 12 number closes, 6 date setups, and 2-3 fvcks. Come on, what do you say?
 

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Why did she say ¨dont be mad¨?

Cause she likes you as a friend.

Next her.

Maybe in a month or 6 call her again (but you wont, since you´ll have better ass).
 

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No thanks to the bootcamp thing. I don't have time these days. That's why this pisses me off so much. I set aside some time for her, and she blows me off so she can sit at home and watch TV or sleep (and trust me, that's what she's doing right now, probably eating a sandwich so she can get fatter and be more miserable). How boring. Good luck to you though.

As for nexting her, I've done that about four times so far. She always comes back, apologizing the whole way, only to agonize me further. I don't know what to do as far as ridding myself of her for good. You wouldn't believe the lengths that I've gone to burn that bridge.
 

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Don't reciprocate any calls/e-mails. You just said you called her... why?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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