"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Don't be mad."

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*sigh*

I just don't ****ing get it.

We hang out (known each other forever, were sorta getting back to where we were before we cut off contact from each other a few months ago). She tells me she had a good time, blah blah... So I call her saturday night, to invite her along for something I'm doing.

"I was out with my friends all day. I just wanna stay home tonight. I have off thursday (meaning she'll come out wednesday). Don't be mad."

So I call tonight.

"I was out with one of my co-workers (some chick, I heard her in the background) for dinner. I was just about to call you and let you know that I was just planning on staying home tonight. I know we sorta made plans (we didn't). Don't be mad."

I'd rather her just not answer the phone rather than shovel around these horse**** excuses, and why is she so concerned with me being mad? Why does she try to keep me on the phone so long, to tell me about her boring day?

I told her I'd call her this weekend, but I already made plans with someone who better appreciates my time. It's too damn bad, as I really liked this one.

**** it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Now, I am not a master don juan or a guru, but all I can tell you that if you have not been talking, fvckin, or dating for at least two years, dont have any amount of feeling for her, PERIOD. What you do, is everyday in your spare time, go out and get women. I have been reading Pooks articles and they have helped me become more of a man, but I am having a problem sealing the deal with women as far as sex is concerned, so I think seduction would work for me. Hey, you wanna start a boot camp? My goal is 20 approaches a week, 12 number closes, 6 date setups, and 2-3 fvcks. Come on, what do you say?
 
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Why did she say ¨dont be mad¨?

Cause she likes you as a friend.

Next her.

Maybe in a month or 6 call her again (but you wont, since you´ll have better ass).
 
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No thanks to the bootcamp thing. I don't have time these days. That's why this pisses me off so much. I set aside some time for her, and she blows me off so she can sit at home and watch TV or sleep (and trust me, that's what she's doing right now, probably eating a sandwich so she can get fatter and be more miserable). How boring. Good luck to you though.

As for nexting her, I've done that about four times so far. She always comes back, apologizing the whole way, only to agonize me further. I don't know what to do as far as ridding myself of her for good. You wouldn't believe the lengths that I've gone to burn that bridge.
 
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Don't reciprocate any calls/e-mails. You just said you called her... why?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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