"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dont be aggressive.

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one thing i've learned, from high school parties and particularity from last night. is some guys are jsut too fuking horny and agressive, i understand resistance but not to the point where ur all over her and shes pushing you away
i scored with 4 chicks last night, cuz i was there the whole night so i played it smooth. didnt try to **** all of them, just foreplay, got head from one of them but still, i planted the seed, meaning theres gonna be a furture. **** worked perfectly, maybe cuz i was one of the two guys in suits and was dressed in class,

so keep in mind, dont be that creepy guy whos just all over drunk chicks, have some class in ya, and just be smooth, slow... if u making out wit her.. take her hands and put it on ur hips just to see how comfortable she is. if shes willing to move her hand lower then ur in. if not. just work it up. feel her hips up and thigns just not her ass and boobs, get her comfortable, you cant run from the first base to the third base, gotta go first, second then third. alot of guys just rush and rush, its sick and makes other guys like us look bad.
so keep that in mind and try to observe other guys, so you dont make the same mistake they do.

BEST OF LUCK FOR 2008, DONT LET A HOE PUT U DOWN.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I gotta say..this is damn good advice.

watch Jim from the office...think he gets turned down because he works slowly? hell no.
 

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thanks
 

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What happens if I like being the creepy guy who grinds on every girl who walks through the door, I'm tellin you man I'm gettin some ***** tonight fo sho.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Outsider said:
What happens if I like being the creepy guy who grinds on every girl who walks through the door, I'm tellin you man I'm gettin some ***** tonight fo sho.
lol u gotta do your thing man
 

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no doubt, I don't know how many times I've just sat next to the girl on the couch for awhile before even startin kino and gotten some as opposed to the guys who are all up grabbing their a** right away. Running your fingers through their hair and across the ears and cheek is golden man. Wish I knew this stuff at 17. Good luck
 
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