"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dont be aggressive.

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one thing i've learned, from high school parties and particularity from last night. is some guys are jsut too fuking horny and agressive, i understand resistance but not to the point where ur all over her and shes pushing you away
i scored with 4 chicks last night, cuz i was there the whole night so i played it smooth. didnt try to **** all of them, just foreplay, got head from one of them but still, i planted the seed, meaning theres gonna be a furture. **** worked perfectly, maybe cuz i was one of the two guys in suits and was dressed in class,

so keep in mind, dont be that creepy guy whos just all over drunk chicks, have some class in ya, and just be smooth, slow... if u making out wit her.. take her hands and put it on ur hips just to see how comfortable she is. if shes willing to move her hand lower then ur in. if not. just work it up. feel her hips up and thigns just not her ass and boobs, get her comfortable, you cant run from the first base to the third base, gotta go first, second then third. alot of guys just rush and rush, its sick and makes other guys like us look bad.
so keep that in mind and try to observe other guys, so you dont make the same mistake they do.

BEST OF LUCK FOR 2008, DONT LET A HOE PUT U DOWN.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I gotta say..this is damn good advice.

watch Jim from the office...think he gets turned down because he works slowly? hell no.
 

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thanks
 

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What happens if I like being the creepy guy who grinds on every girl who walks through the door, I'm tellin you man I'm gettin some ***** tonight fo sho.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Outsider said:
What happens if I like being the creepy guy who grinds on every girl who walks through the door, I'm tellin you man I'm gettin some ***** tonight fo sho.
lol u gotta do your thing man
 

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no doubt, I don't know how many times I've just sat next to the girl on the couch for awhile before even startin kino and gotten some as opposed to the guys who are all up grabbing their a** right away. Running your fingers through their hair and across the ears and cheek is golden man. Wish I knew this stuff at 17. Good luck
 
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