Done something stupid

[PeterCrouch]

think ive done something stupid!

infact i know i have, need to know if theres anyway i can save myself!


Basically chatting to this gal on msn, she says hi, i ask her how she is etc she says all the better for hearing from you!

then we had some chit chat about the dentists she had been too

then she says are ya watching blah blah

i said kinda but i havent watched it for a while and then i said has (gal on the program) always looked that fit? she said woteva, she said well i ait telling ya whats been going on if ya havent watched it i said what i knew had happend she said shut up, i said y? coz u know im right? she said no! i said coz im brilliant and if i keep talking you wont be able to stop thinking about me? she said lol yeh def! beiing sarcastic obviously! so i said yep thought so, she said lol!

so im doing ok, ive been a little ****y and funny,

then she says "iam going to go, ill se ya tomorrow if your in" (college)

then she says "love ya see ya xxxxx"

now here i should of said toodles xx as i usually do

but stupidly i said "no dont go stay!" ive just got into (tv show)!!

then she said "you'll see me tomorrow xxxxx"

then she went!

ive had a mare! ive come off too desperate havent i?

worst thing is ive liked her for a while and about a week ago i realised she was an attention seeker and i decided to move onto her best friend but i still kinda have feelings for her so i dont wanna sound like a jerk!! and last few days she been more intrested in me than ever before! saying things like she will cry if i go away (planning on moving) and saying things like her bday wouldnt be the same without me and stuff!

is there anyway i can save myself with a text or something i can do tomorrow?

cheers for the hep!

 

[seroph]

I'm gonna agree with Mr. Shezzler here.

You definitely did have C+F stuff there. Nice.

Just don't make a big deal out of anything. You're in charge of things here. No need to apologize or explain yourself to her or whatever.

I've done that "ignoring" thing before in a similar situation. If ur in an environment in which you know she's gonna be there.. do your own thing, live your life.. let her come over and initate the convo. And when that happens, be chill, C+F, charming, whatever.

*shrugs*

 

[PeterCrouch]

cool glad you guys dont think ive messed up

tbh i dont think i have a chance with her, we have known each other for 6 months or so and things have happend and convos have been had which i cant be arsed to go into, but basically if im being honest i dont have a chance and i think shes an attention seeker!

but im glad you guys have helped and ill definatly do my own thing tomorrow and let her come to me!

cheers

 

[Jariel]

Asking her to stay is no big deal. As shezzler said, don't try to resolve anything as that leads to a downward spiral. Let it slide and let her come to you next.

 

[Adonis_18`]

"toodles"..:crackup:...god, i still can't get over that.

anyway, in all seriousness that wasn't the best thing to say but it definately wasn't the worst either. everyone fuks up their game once and a while, the important thing that can either make or brake you is how you RECOVER. believe it or not u can actually use this little incident to you advantage if you play your cards right. like Shezzler said, DON'T LET HER SEE THAT YOU HAVE FEELING FOR HER when you see/talk to her again. she'll probably wonder y the sudden change of heart...and of course she'll try a little harder to win it back, why?, cuz that's what girls do....and of course, cuz ur soosuave.

whenever you 'fukup' like this just do what i do and take it as a a learning experience and a little reminder that you may need to work a little harder on this HB. toodles :crackup: <--and stop saying that by the way.

 

[PeterCrouch]

no way nothing wrong with toodles!

actually the coolest word ever!

everyone loves it!

umm anyway it went ok, i saw her in college she stopped came into the class i was in and we had a quick chat and spoke online that evening and eveything was cool!

cheers guys!

toodles xx

 

[MetalFortress]

Hahaha dude, toodles is something chicks say. Toodles xx is even worse - that ALONE might get you LJBF'ed! Say adios, see ya, later, aurevoir, ciao bella, ANYTHING but toodles!

 

[PeterCrouch]

Mate for a start your in usa im in a decent country where one word doesnt mean your gonna get laid or not!

secondly i got toodles from a mate of mine, he right now is going out with the hottest gal in our town! now i dont see the fact that he uses toodles alot has harmed him with the gals!

and thirdly toodles is a great word! FACT!