brat-buster
Don Juan
usa/michigan/grosse ile, b-ham, royal oak
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Australia / NSW / Campbelltown
DoN_KaTRiN
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2005
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USA/San Diego/Southern California
godzilla007
New Member
- Joined
- May 26, 2005
- Messages
- 6
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- 0
USA / New Jersey - NJ / Somerset
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lil ice 537
New Member
USA/New York/Bronx
h2o
Banned
USA / North Carolina / Raleigh
Lady_KillR
New Member
Australia / Victoria / Melbourne
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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- Jul 6, 2005
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- 868
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San Mateo, California
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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
fallen_eiku
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 19, 2005
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- 40
USA/ Virginia / Reston
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ianlove
Don Juan
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Brittain/England
Lancashire
Manchester
Brittain/England
Lancashire
Manchester
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
USA/Minnesota/Duluth
Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
Bulgaria / Sofia
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
USA / Michigan / Detroit
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.