Tenacious AFC
New Member
USA / Florida / Miami
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
To_mek
New Member
Warsaw, Poland 
Mack Action Hero
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 30, 2003
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USA / Connecticut / Hartford
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
buckwheat18
Don Juan
here goes
USA / NY / Western NY
USA / NY / Western NY
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
USA / Florida / West Palm Beach (Boynton Beach)
Peeaayempee
New Member
Netherlands Nederland / Zuid Holland / Den haag
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
Greater Toronto Area, Canada
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
misterethoughts
Don Juan
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- Jun 6, 2004
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- 94
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USA CALIFORNIA SAN JOSE
[look]aRhino
Don Juan
Canada / Ontario / Toronto
rhino
rhino
arcilitei34
Don Juan
Canada / Alberta / Calgary
NoMoreMisterNiceGuy
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 17, 2004
- Messages
- 135
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Chile
Southamerica
Santiago de Chile
Southamerica
Santiago de Chile
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
pimp in training
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 19, 2004
- Messages
- 51
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USA / Maryland / Baltimore
Dj Deity
Don Juan
USA / Colorado / Aurora / Denver / Cherry Creek High School
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.