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Master Don Juan
USA/ California / Long Beach
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jvesti
Master Don Juan
USA / Massachusetts / Braintree
locrian
Don Juan
USA / Pennsylvania / philadelphia
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Bump
USA / Virginia / Alexandria
USA / Virginia / Alexandria
Spyderguard
Don Juan
USA / CA / Los Angeles or Santa Monica
I guess it's about time that I unlurked
I guess it's about time that I unlurked
Tony Montana2004
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2004
- Messages
- 30
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New Haven,CT
USA/Connecticut/New Haven
USA/Connecticut/New Haven
Hidden-Danjer
Master Don Juan
UK, United Kingdom, England, Britain, Yorkshire, Hull, Bridlington
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mogness
Don Juan
USA / Florida / Orlando(Apopka)
Man I hate Florida ;x
Man I hate Florida ;x
Zen
New Member
India/Gujarat/Ahmedabad
taqueso
Don Juan
USA / South Dakota / Rapid City
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
- 763
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 40
USA / Tennessee / Bristol
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Capi Crimini
Banned
USA/WISCONSIN/KENOSHA-RACINE
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
USA/California/Fontana
DJ Girl
Don Juan
Canada / Ontario / Toronto
SOLDIERM16
Don Juan
USA / California / los angeles
Egyptiandude1
Don Juan
USA / California / Los Angeles / West Los Angeles
Right next to Culver City
Right next to Culver City
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.