"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan Tip of the Day - Weak

Docs

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Today's tip, about 6 phone numbers in 5 minutes is a good tip, but it's 5 years old.

Allen, as much as I like reading those emails, I would like to see recent material be placed in them, successes and tips from the CURRENT users of SS.com, not from people that his last post was in '02.

Leave older posts to the bible, because I'm sure if you took a look around (and I know you do), you will find some stuff worthy of at least a Tip of the Day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been reading "tip of the day" for the last couple of weeks now. All but one tip has been absolutely dreadful with no real useful information. It's usually either somebody boasting about their achievement (and most of the time it sounds like pure BS), or some vague advice that doesn't offer anything useful. I can't see these "tips" being helpful to anyone because the information is so basic that unless you are some sort of isolated hermit who has no contact with the rest of humanity and has zero social skills, common sense will see you through anyway.

For real advice, it's probably better to read messages by posters on this forum.
 

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This tip was actually NOT that great of a tip.

Girls give out there #'s like it's no big deal. Just because you got her number doesn't mean anything.

If you don't have any rapport with the girl then the number doesn't really do any miracles for you.

The other day, one of my girl-friends had a BUNCH LOAD of guys calling her. Did she want to talk to them?

HEEEEELLLL NO! She didn't even pick up.

They just want the attention and the boost of confidence.

Again, a phone number doesn't mean much without having a real EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with the girl first.
 
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