"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don Juan Tip of the Day - Weak

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Today's tip, about 6 phone numbers in 5 minutes is a good tip, but it's 5 years old.

Allen, as much as I like reading those emails, I would like to see recent material be placed in them, successes and tips from the CURRENT users of SS.com, not from people that his last post was in '02.

Leave older posts to the bible, because I'm sure if you took a look around (and I know you do), you will find some stuff worthy of at least a Tip of the Day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been reading "tip of the day" for the last couple of weeks now. All but one tip has been absolutely dreadful with no real useful information. It's usually either somebody boasting about their achievement (and most of the time it sounds like pure BS), or some vague advice that doesn't offer anything useful. I can't see these "tips" being helpful to anyone because the information is so basic that unless you are some sort of isolated hermit who has no contact with the rest of humanity and has zero social skills, common sense will see you through anyway.

For real advice, it's probably better to read messages by posters on this forum.
 

B-Lemond

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This tip was actually NOT that great of a tip.

Girls give out there #'s like it's no big deal. Just because you got her number doesn't mean anything.

If you don't have any rapport with the girl then the number doesn't really do any miracles for you.

The other day, one of my girl-friends had a BUNCH LOAD of guys calling her. Did she want to talk to them?

HEEEEELLLL NO! She didn't even pick up.

They just want the attention and the boost of confidence.

Again, a phone number doesn't mean much without having a real EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with the girl first.
 
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