"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don Juan success in Japan (attention Don Juans who have been to/lived in Japan)

donjuan87

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Would all the stuff I have learned on this site and message board work in Japan? The reason I am asking is because I am planning on moving to Japan.

I know the cultures are very similar, yet VERY different.




No offense, but I don't need any posts that just say 'yep' or what works in the U.S. has gotta work in Japan'. I want posts from people who know what they are talking about and can answer and expand on my question.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my friend just got back from being stationed in Japan. From what I can tell from talking to him, girls were easy in Japan for him. The interest was already there, because he was exotic and exciting, and all he had to do was talk to them. He said that he could get away with anything, asking for sexual favors in bad japanese and they'd laugh.
 

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Learn some japanese, or you will be left with body language, social proof, looks, and voice tone... no personality will be with you and you will only REALLY find girls who speak english well.
 

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hehe peacock peacock peacock

you see it all over the place, watch some of their gameshows and be exciting... very exciting
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
hehe peacock peacock peacock

you see it all over the place, watch some of their gameshows and be exciting... very exciting
Peacocking is so ****ed up
 
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