"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don Juan success in Japan (attention Don Juans who have been to/lived in Japan)

donjuan87

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Would all the stuff I have learned on this site and message board work in Japan? The reason I am asking is because I am planning on moving to Japan.

I know the cultures are very similar, yet VERY different.




No offense, but I don't need any posts that just say 'yep' or what works in the U.S. has gotta work in Japan'. I want posts from people who know what they are talking about and can answer and expand on my question.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BrotherAP

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my friend just got back from being stationed in Japan. From what I can tell from talking to him, girls were easy in Japan for him. The interest was already there, because he was exotic and exciting, and all he had to do was talk to them. He said that he could get away with anything, asking for sexual favors in bad japanese and they'd laugh.
 

Boner da Stoner

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Learn some japanese, or you will be left with body language, social proof, looks, and voice tone... no personality will be with you and you will only REALLY find girls who speak english well.
 

Boner da Stoner

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hehe peacock peacock peacock

you see it all over the place, watch some of their gameshows and be exciting... very exciting
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
hehe peacock peacock peacock

you see it all over the place, watch some of their gameshows and be exciting... very exciting
Peacocking is so ****ed up
 
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