"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ de Florida

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Allen,

In my opinion, it seems many of the tips contained in the Don Juan Newsletter in recent months have been mediocre.

My suggestion would be to cut down the frequency of the letter to once a week. I would like to see a weekly newsletter containing an article from an author on dating/relationships, an article from you, and a tip submitted by a recipient of the DJ Newsletter or a post made on the discussion forum. It would even be better if they were all related to some theme.

It appears some of the tips have been thrown into the newsletter just for meeting the goal of sending out the e-mail on schedule. In summary, I would like to see more quality in the newsletter rather than quantity.

We appreciate all the work you continue to do with the site and the newsletter.

Respectfully,

DJ de Florida
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who cares? Don't read it then. I like every single one, it;ll either remind you of the techniques with examples and so on or teach you something new.

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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.
 

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Thanks for the suggestion. I'm assuming you're referring to the Tip of the Day and not the Newsletter. I'm pretty happy with the current format of the TOTD, although I'll agree that some tips are better than others. But I never send anything out that doesn't have some merit.
 

DJ de Florida

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Thanks for the suggestion. I'm assuming you're referring to the Tip of the Day and not the Newsletter. I'm pretty happy with the current format of the TOTD, although I'll agree that some tips are better than others. But I never send anything out that doesn't have some merit.
Allen,

I was referring to the Tip of the Day. I didn't realize there was a difference between the "Tip of the Day" and the "Don Juan Newsletter". I guess I don't check my e-mail subject messages carefully. I believe I only get the "Tip of the Day". If I don't receive the "Don Juan Newsletter" in my mailbox, I will subscribe.

The essence of my comment was that I would like to see more developed and well-placed material versus frequent e-mails which may not be up to par.

Just trying to help make the website better.....

Respectfully,
DJ de Florida




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