"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ de Florida

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Allen,

In my opinion, it seems many of the tips contained in the Don Juan Newsletter in recent months have been mediocre.

My suggestion would be to cut down the frequency of the letter to once a week. I would like to see a weekly newsletter containing an article from an author on dating/relationships, an article from you, and a tip submitted by a recipient of the DJ Newsletter or a post made on the discussion forum. It would even be better if they were all related to some theme.

It appears some of the tips have been thrown into the newsletter just for meeting the goal of sending out the e-mail on schedule. In summary, I would like to see more quality in the newsletter rather than quantity.

We appreciate all the work you continue to do with the site and the newsletter.

Respectfully,

DJ de Florida
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who cares? Don't read it then. I like every single one, it;ll either remind you of the techniques with examples and so on or teach you something new.

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"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

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Thanks for the suggestion. I'm assuming you're referring to the Tip of the Day and not the Newsletter. I'm pretty happy with the current format of the TOTD, although I'll agree that some tips are better than others. But I never send anything out that doesn't have some merit.
 

DJ de Florida

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Originally posted by sosuave.com:
Thanks for the suggestion. I'm assuming you're referring to the Tip of the Day and not the Newsletter. I'm pretty happy with the current format of the TOTD, although I'll agree that some tips are better than others. But I never send anything out that doesn't have some merit.
Allen,

I was referring to the Tip of the Day. I didn't realize there was a difference between the "Tip of the Day" and the "Don Juan Newsletter". I guess I don't check my e-mail subject messages carefully. I believe I only get the "Tip of the Day". If I don't receive the "Don Juan Newsletter" in my mailbox, I will subscribe.

The essence of my comment was that I would like to see more developed and well-placed material versus frequent e-mails which may not be up to par.

Just trying to help make the website better.....

Respectfully,
DJ de Florida




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