"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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philip

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Hey guys,
I am 18 years old and I am going to take part in the Don Juan Bootcamp. I do go to school and I have a part-time-job so it may will give a problem because I dont have enough time for it. My english is not the best because I am from Germany near Berlin. Buuut anyways I hope for advice and constructive critism.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wifehunter

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Hi,

Sounds like a good start. Let us know, how it goes.
 

resilient

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500 approaches or GTFO. J/k, good luck, OP.

Solid stuff in the bootcamp, young Don Juan. It will change your life if you listen well and apply yourself. This was my bootcamp initiation from 2006. I was the oldest guy to join it at 25. Hah. Still completed it 100%.



Also, check out a current approach thread: Narc's 100 sets in 100 days thread.
 

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Hey finished the exercise of week 1 yesterday.
I was like 80 minutes out saying hello to like 75 People and holding eye contact.
Well... it´s not what I normally do on a saturday but it was fun and I spoke to a guy for like 20 minutes walking arround talking about sport and girls.
Some People stared back and not looking away was sometimes Kind of weird but I made it :up:
 
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