"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by redmenace
Missed the 17th, any more bootcamps on the calendar? What is AIM?
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they changed it.. it will be starting this friday 24th
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Max0r
The xanga idea is pretty cool, I like it. Start a ring and I'll join.

Also, you Chicago area guys, let's exchange phone numbers and do some meets.

IM: volume Maxed out
e-mail: maxizzle at comcast dot net

Or PM me.
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For sure. We need to meet up and help eachother out.

Imagine when we finish and finally get over our fears. How great would that be!

Then we can become true DJs and we'll be the ones giving the newbies advice. lol.
 
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38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
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^hey justAd1ck, i think you just copy/pasted the list but forgot to write your own info? i added yours for you, just in case...or maybe you were just being a d!ck and posting for the sake of posting? :D j/k

i never tried the bootcamp thing and sort of did my own thing...sort of worked, and sort of didn't. it won't hurt to try though...can only serve as more improvement. anyway, count me in.

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8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
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29. Mr.De Beer ( )
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32. da charma ( )
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34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. justAd1ck ( )
44. h2o (NC) 21

btw, i'll have to go back and read the other 8 pages of this thread to realize what's going on...hopefully i'll have time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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good luck guys.
:cheer:

heh i've never heard of anyone acutally finishing the dj-bootcamp
 
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opps i thought u put your aim sn intead of your id. Heres the fixed list

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7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
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12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
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27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
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37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
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40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
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fixed my sn. GOt it wrong.
 
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have i done mine right?

i have put my msn name down, should i get aim? and how do i get it?


what actually happens in this boot camp then?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess I should have read the thread 1st...:cheer:

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12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
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32. da charma ( )
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35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
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40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
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I wouldn't mind joining this, so i'm in.

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8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
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12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
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29. Mr.De Beer ( )
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31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
 
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Like alot of others have said, I need to push myself! To put into action the things I've read about. Without acting on what I've read, reading it was pointless.

It's not what you know, its what you do with it.

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9. david00035 (Canada) 21
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34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
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37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. h2o (NC) 21
44. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
45. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
46. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
 
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Originally posted by NYC_AFC

so, if any of you NYC people want to go out sometime and just push eachother to approach women, that would be cool.
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Where in NYC is everyone? I'm 10 minutes from the GW in Jersey.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i live in queens, nyc. but i plan to use the subway a lot this summer since i have football camp in manahattan
 
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Hey Chicago Guys.


PERFECT place to do bootcamp excercises is the Freaken Taste of Chicago!

Thousands of people will be there especially many hot girls in skimpy clothing.

I cant think of a better place for the eye contact/hello and the mini convos we need to do.
 
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Hits self in head.

Youre damn right Mjfan..I completely forgot about that. You can get at least a Hundred "Hi's" in one day. Theres going to be what at about a Million people there ( literally) the 3rd of July.
 
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Originally posted by Movin on up
Hits self in head.

Youre damn right Mjfan..I completely forgot about that. You can get at least a Hundred "Hi's" in one day. Theres going to be what at about a Million people there ( literally) the 3rd of July.
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lets get some other guys and meet up there.
 
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its great you guys got that going for week1+2. anyone guys in NYC know some places? july 4th in times square anyone? lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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