"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

Mr.De Beer

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Hey Ricky, Glad to see your jumping on the bandwagon like I SUGGESTED in the mature man's forum. haha.

How far did you make it in bootcamp last time? I got to week 4.

Okay I don't think I can use any of the java aim links you guys posted. I will have to check out the blogs you guys are talking about but I don't know what those are either.

1. Billasec4life
2. BoxCarHouse101
3. lilice537
4. draedalusPK
5. redshiftat7000
6. SiR WiSPeRS
7. BrotherAaron212
8. Regus2k1
9. Theshanksterone
10. projekt7dsm
11. Tukzulu
12. MxMxstr
13. Jackpowent
14. cbehrsi0
15. Dj gone Pro
16. AwNaw34523
17.david00035
18. feartheflea
19. volume Maxed out
20. RazerW0lf
21. onyxthepimpdaddy
22. titoman87
23. lingmongjup
24. dice7713
25. social401k
26. mjfan123
27. Itachi931
28. LibGho712abc
29. Mr.De Beer a.k.a Amniarix (Web blog..)
Here is the updated list. Anyone who wants to join in remember to add your name to the list by copying and pasting into your response.

How many web blogs do we have going here? I've seen 2 or 3? Which one is the official one? If you guys post there does that mean we're not posting here?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey mr. de beer. You don't have to copy EVERYTHING I said, just the list. :D
 

Mr.De Beer

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Sorry man...:D
We begining next week friday, or what?
 

BrotherAP

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We're beginning next friday. I will join the Xanga blogring posted above, and recommend that everybody do the same. It will work out better than all of us trying to post field reports in a common thread - that would just be chaotic.

I will, however, start a thread where we will be able to post "I had an awesome night out last night! Check it out guys, here at http://link.to/myblog!"

Anyway, my blog will be up and running soon. Apparently, I signed up for a Xanga once - I got the classic "This username is taken" message, so I figured I'd try my stock password, and, viola! "Hi, BrotherAaron... it's been 354 days since you joined Xanga. You currently have no entries" Haha, I guess I hadn't quite found a use for it yet.

My blog will (soon) be found at:

http://www.xanga.com/BrotherAaron


And the official blogring:

http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1387725
 

LostinNJ

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Ok, we have chat rooms, aim, threads, and this xanga thing. Someone needs to be the "ringleader" here and organize this. I have organized and hosted many car events (track days, dyno days, meets, shows, etc), so I speak from expierience when I say this looks like it's headed for disaster. If I may, here are some ideas:

1. Scrap this thread, copy the AIM list to a new thread, sticky it, and have sign up posts only with no off topic discussion whatsoever.

2. Someone needs to be the "leader." He wont be the boss, he will just organize everything to make this successful. Having too many people trying to do so will **** everything up. I know this all too well. I would do it myself, but I am going away for almost 2 weeks right after the start of this thing. If it comes down to it, I will step up and get the ball rolling if you guy want.

3. We need some place to communicate. I think AIM chat rooms are the best, but we would need to find a time when most people are on.

4. When I said the team thing wouldn't be a good idea, I didn't think the turnout would be this great. I now agree that the 4 or so man team would be a good idea, but we need a system for breaking up into teams, and handling drop outs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LostinNJ-

I find your lack of faith disturbing...

Seriously though,

BrotherAP,

I think it would be a good idea if we make a new bootcamp post every week. For example: DJ Bootcamp week 1, week 2, ect.

Do we have an official chat site yet? OTHER then aim?

later
 

BrotherAP

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Bootcampers: I'm out!

But don't worry. I'll be back. It's family reunion time, and I definitely don't intend to try and pick up girls there. It's out in the woods, and I don't anticipate having internet access (I'll try, ok?). Feel free to leave me a PM anytime, but I likely wont be able to respond until Wednesday.

For now, I recommend reading not only the bootcamp week 1, but read some other things in the DJ Bible about approaches, confidence, and whatever else you feel might help you in the approach game.

EverOnward, I still want to find a chat solution other than AIM - I want to designate a room that will be persistant and doesn't rely on privae invitations. People should be able to go there anytime and see if there are other people around. There are enough people in this already to make it a popular chat room. Who knows, maybe people who aren't bootcamping will even want to come in and say a few words.

I also like your idea to post a new thread every week. That will make it easier for people to keep up with current events.

LostinNJ - don't sweat it. I'm working on pulling this all together, but, in the end, it's not too complicated. The important thing is that everyone has a way to post their field reports and get positive responses to them.

Anyway, I'll help tie up all the loose ends when I get back. For now, good luck on your preparations. Don't lose steam, we've got some great enthusiasm goin on here. I really like Tehcnicolor's style - if you want to improve yourself, go all out! Remember, girls are just one part of the equation, so don't stop focusing on yourselves.

See ya on the flipside!
 

Movin on up

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Alright I had a couple of extra minutes, So I separated us by location. And I went it and added the Age. If you arent listed just throw where you live in there.

In case anyone wanted to meet up.

Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19

lilice537 (New York) 15
Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15

mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
feartheflea (Chicago) 21

MxMxstr (Canada) 20
david00035 (Canada) 21

projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19

Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35

BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20

onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
LibGho712abc (UK) 22

SiR WiSPeRS ( )
AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
Theshanksterone ( )
Regus2k1 ( )
redshiftat7000 ( ) 22
RazerW0lf ( )
cbehrsi0 ( )
titoman87 ( )
lingmongjup ( )
dice7713 ( ) 20
social401k ( )
draedalusPK ( )
Itachi931 ( )
BoxCarHouse101 ( )
Mr.De Beer ( )
 

Regus

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Alright I had a couple of extra minutes, So I separated us by location. And I went it and added the Age. If you arent listed just throw where you live in there.
I am 21 and live in New Jersey.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Magico

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Too many hot girls in this town for me to do noting about it...count me in!

1. Billasec4life
2. BoxCarHouse101
3. lilice537
4. draedalusPK
5. redshiftat7000
6. SiR WiSPeRS
7. BrotherAaron212
8. Regus2k1
9. Theshanksterone
10. projekt7dsm
11. Tukzulu
12. MxMxstr
13. Jackpowent
14. cbehrsi0
15. Dj gone Pro
16. AwNaw34523
17.david00035
18. feartheflea
19. volume Maxed out
20. RazerW0lf
21. onyxthepimpdaddy
22. titoman87
23. lingmongjup
24. dice7713
25. social401k
26. mjfan123
27. Itachi931
28. LibGho712abc
29. Mr.De Beer a.k.a Amniarix (Web blog..)
30. Magico

I'll download AIM tomo and paste in place of my username.

There definitely needs to be a leader, brotherAP sounds like a good candidate since he came up with the whole idea.

This is gonna be great.
 

Stripes

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in

im DJ Infamous MD
Added two Sn's i found in forum not on the list?
Suggestion: To stop people from joining after the start should there be a dedicated site with logins created for all users, a list of sn's with hyperlinking blogs? An exclusive forum for our bunch to keep out negative critics from out side the group as well as remove any one who uses criticism vs encouragement. until 8 weeks of camp is over so others can see what they missed out on?

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 ( ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. ingmongjup ( )
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. Magico ()
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20

im me and tell me what you think or im me the link to something like this if its already created lol. my sn will typically be online 24/7 through my phone
 

Javelin44

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1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 ( ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. ingmongjup ( )
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. Magico ()
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am 22 and live in Detroit suburbs.
 

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just a thought guys

i think we need a little organization, yes. and a way to organize everything, i think we should have 8 summer bootcamp threads, one for each week. that way, when people finish, they can move on. all 8 pages should be created, and the first week should have links to all 8. the reason im trying to stress this, is because people WILL fall behind, its unavoidable. people will be busy, have places to go, vacations ect. so if there are multiple rooms, people can post in one until they complete the goal or feel comfortable and can move on. some weeks will probably be more challenging then others, so this way people can still stay in the game and keep going with the BC even if they fall behind or cant complete the exercises in the given time.

now, personally i dont see a need for a "leader." someone just needs to make the posts here, and if people wanna do blogs and chatrooms they can do that on their own, but the main thing is just getting the 8 weeks made (if people agree this is a good idea, i think it is anyway). if no1 wants to do it i have no problem doing a little work. i dont have the time or desire to organize chatrooms or anything beyond whats on this website. the most important thing is that we go OUT and complete the exercises. chatrooms might be great, but it could just lead to time being wasted that could have been spent with people going out into the world. thought without action is USELESS, and action in this case is going out and stepping out of our comfort zones.

just my thoughts. if people agree that the seperate posts for each week is a good idea, then i can go ahead and create it come this friday (unless some1 else wants to, or every1 decides on some1 else to do it). i think we should post the initial exercises and the lil intro that comes with each week so people can read it on the site as well.

either way, ill check back in a couple days to see what the consensus is. i think the 8 seperate threads would be a good idea, that way people can still have some1 whos doing the same exercises no matter where they are in the camp. but, thats just me, please post on your opinion, we can make this work or we can just do it another way.
 

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Originally posted by Ever onward LostinNJ-

I find your lack of faith disturbing...
Don't know where you got lack of faith from that post, but whatever. I simply gave my suggestions for organizing this thing based on my expierience with hosting events. Simple as that, take it or leave it.
 

Magico

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Screen name added

I put my AIM screen name in place of my sosuave user name.

Technicolor, it is a great idea to have separate threads for each week. That way maybe we won't need blogs. I suggest people make short posts or if they can't make it short, make sure to have a short excerpt/summary at the end.

updated list:

1. Billasec4life (Boston Mass) 16
2. Jackpowent (Massachusetts_) 19
3. lilice537 (New York) 15
4. Dj gone Pro ( Brooklyn New York) 15
5. mjfan123 (Chicago) 19
6. volume Maxed out (Chicago) 21
7. feartheflea (Chicago) 21
8. MxMxstr (Canada) 20
9. david00035 (Canada) 21
10. projekt7dsm (New Jersey) 19
11. Tukzulu (Washington D.C.) 35
12. BrotherAaron212 (New Mexico) 20
13. onyxthepimpdaddy (UK ) 20
14. LibGho712abc (UK) 22
15. SiR WiSPeRS ( )
16. AwNaw34523 ( ) 19
17. Theshanksterone ( )
18. Regus2k1 ( )
19. redshiftat7000 ( ) 22
20. RazerW0lf ( )
21. cbehrsi0 ( )
22. titoman87 ( )
23. ingmongjup ( )
24. dice7713 ( ) 20
25. social401k ( )
26. draedalusPK ( )
27. Itachi931 ( )
28. BoxCarHouse101 ( )
29. Mr.De Beer ( )
30. MMMagico (Serbia&Montenegro) 25
31. djzulu69 ( Las Vegas ) 25
32. da charma ( )
33. Dj Infamous MD (Ohio) 20
34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
 

Max0r

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I'm really feeling this whole bootcamp vibe. All of you seem much more friendly and engaging than any seduction community I've dealt with before. We're a team.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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