Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Don Juan Bootcamp Recruiting, Summer 2005

dice

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i have a question about the bootcamp, is it something you can do even though you aren't ready to put yourself on the market. I made a total commitment to myself this summer to fix every flaw i have so that im happy with myself before i go lookin for girlys. Is it something I will learn from even if im not the man I want to be yet, or is it something I will struggle through because of said reason.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OklyDokly

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OK I think it's time I proactively started taking control of my relationship life, so I'm in...

AIM is cbehrsi0
 

DoN_KaTRiN

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yo count me IN!!!!:woo:
aim:SiR WiSPeRS
so when does bootcamp really start the june 17th or june 24th??
 

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I am in !!!

screenname: redshiftat7000
 

TheJoe

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bootcamp

hi, what is this bootcamp do? im a n00b :D so ill probally need it aswell!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Think of the bootcamp as an online correspond course that will teach you how to overcome some social phobias about approaching and meeting new people, especially extremely good looking girls. It's a self-improvement thing, with an emphasis on action for learning that helps with the widespread problem that people tend to read a lot and do a little.

The bootcamp will start a week from tomorrow, on Jun 24.

I'm looking for a website with a Java client where we can start a chat. If I can't find one, we will use an IRC chat client. There is no set time as of yet. Just get the first week read for now.
 

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im going travelling on the 24th for a couple of months so i guess ill miss out on the teachings :(

but ill get the oppotunity to pull some tasty european birds and improve my skills.. i still gotta finish off that bible :D
 

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Me too

I'll give it a shot.

Dunno what to expect but hey.

AIM: draedalusPK (not sure about using it yet)

MSN: scuzzpuck99 [at] hotmail.com
 

Ever onward

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It's good to see all you new recruits getting so pumped.

It reminds me of back when I first started Bootcamp. It WILL do wonders for you. I swear by it. Follow the instructions and don't skip a step, not even the 50 hellos.

You WILL feel great about yourself. You will do things you never thought you could do. Just don't skip a step. Keep yourself honest. And don't quit after the first week or two like most people do.

I did the bootcamp last fall with a bunch of guys and my confidence skyrocketed. At one point I was dating 2 girls at once. I made an AFC mistake and got exclusive with one of the girls, DO NOT DO THIS.

Anyways, I'm almost ready to get back into the game. I'm tempted to join with you guys but I have already made a commitment to post in the "mature man" bootcamp thread.

I will be interested to see how everyone does. Post your sucesses and failures on the official bootcamp thread once it gets created. Also let me know if a chat site is found.
 

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:( i literally leave the day this starts.. will there be some kinda log where i can catch up on?

how long does it last?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheJoe-

It lasts 8 weeks but few people make it past week 3.

How long will you be gone?

The first couple of weeks are just saying hi and having convo's with random strangers. You might be able to do that on your trip. Just keep yourself honest.

Meanwhile, you can download the whole program from this site for free. I recommend you print off a copy. It's like 112 pages in its entirety!

Also, someone whose feeling ambitous should copy down all the names of those who want to participate and their contact info. Then post in on the actual Bootcamp thread once it gets started on the 24th.

I am really pumped! I haven't been this excited since the first time I attempted bootcamp.

I hope everyone is as excited as I am. Just remain dedicated!
 
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Another BOOTCAMP :)

Count me in
 

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Yeah.. that boot camp sounds nice. I'll do it - beginning to end!

Just one thing. I don't have AIM, and I can't get it cause I run Linux and can't install stuff etc etc
Problem?

IRC will be great though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i was about to post my own bootcamp thread when i saw this link. hopefully at least a handful of people will stay together, itl be an awesome experience for any1 who participates. remember, "if you keep doing what your doing, you'll keep getting what you already got." so lets step out of our comfort zones and change ourselves for the better!

the names technicolor, i created a new aim account strictly for this, its "BoxCarHouse101"

since theres a week downtime, i think we should all give a lil info about ourselves, some short term and long term goals, such as getting in shape, finding new hobbies passions in life ect. going out and trying new things and changing ourselves will parallel the dj bootcamp, at least i think it would.

so if yall think thats a good idea u know where to post. ill check back later n post about myself, i have somewhere i need to go right now. and since no1 has done it, ill gather every1's aim SN in a convenient list.

so ya, looking foward to this guys, lets have some fun this summer :up:
 

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HELL YEAH!!!!!!

Technicolor's right!! Dream big people! LET'S MAKE THIS THE BEST SUMMER OF OUR LIVES!!

Tell us what you want out of this bootcamp. Tell us where your game is at right now. Inspire us with what you want out of this!!!

This is a team effort, no man shall be left behind.
 

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Is there anyway someone could keep me posted over email for the first three weeks.. ill be checking my email everyday but wont be able to comply with certain times for an online chat.maybe i could jump in on week 3...

im travelling alone so i have to meet a ton of people anyway.. that was my previous plan.

if you nobody is prepared to do that, its ok.. ill just finish my read of the bible and go the long way around it or just wait another year.

im pretty confident anyway, but as i say its no biggie if it cant be done :D
 

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What do you mean email you? What exactly are we to email you, everyone else's experiences in the bootcamp? The thread will still be going when you get back.

Just print out the Bootcamp and take it with you. You can complete the exercises, they aren't that difficult. Keep a journal and post your experiences when you get back.

Don't wait another year. We have all wasted too much time already.

Procrastination = masturbation

The goal here is to get pvssy, not turn into one! :D

No pussing out people!

Commit! Commit to making your life better!

Only you can do this for you!

Okay I'm getting offline for the night. Someone else needs to get pumped and carry on the enthusiasm for this thread.
 
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well, im not sure how this thing actually works but i think there are what, assignments (Do 5 cold appraoches in a day, that sort of thing).... research and reading up on things such as the bible and putting it into practise.. i may be wrong though :D
emailing the steps i have to take or what i need to read or something like that.

i only found out about this thing today im not totally sure what the set up is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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