"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, I thought so. I'd recommend you to do the first week, it gets you started and intto the "BC-mindset". And you can probably help others.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh yeah ok

I'm 18 from georgia. All summer I'm working an internship and lifting weights, plus I'm doing a couple of college visits ( = opportunity to practice game on the girls visiting too). Other than that I have enough free time to do the BC and work on my game. I still have another year of high school, hopefully by the time I get to college I'll be set when it comes to game.

My biggest weakness is not that I am terrible around women....but its that I'm not actually approaching enough and not trying hard enough. I get approached by uglies all the time and I want that to stop...and get approached by hot girls.

sign me up chief :up:

i think this thread should b stickeyed
 

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You're in :up:
 

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Im in too turned 17 yesterday from Madeira island(thats in portugal) and first year in highschool.Time to get some as$:up:

one question: probably there will be something like get X numbers but since i dont have a phone isent that kinda stupid?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ouch, you don't have a phone??? Well, you could still get the girls numbers and then call them from a phonebox I guess.
 

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**** yeah, I mean why not? Im already succesful with women but this can turn out to be fun! Count me in! Maybe Ill start posting some if my LRs too.
 

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count me in :)

I'm 21 years old and i actually started the bootcamp a week ago, but i will wait for you guys.
I have been into DJ'ing for a long time but i stille havent mastered approaching as much as i would. I really don't have a problem with attracting girls that i get introduced to but as soon as it comes to approaching girls i don't already know i'm completely hopeless. A reason to this is that I get quite a lot of approach anxiety and i hope this bc will help me to get rid of it.

This is gonna be a lot of fun ...
 

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I"M IN.

I think this is an awesome idea, accountability is great for things like this. Count on me to be on all your asces!!!

I'm 22, from Georgia, U.S., graduating college, haven't done everything I know I should when it comes to women/dating. Specifically, I want to be able to approach anyone, anywhere, and be free of approach anxiety/outcome. I want to date MY way and hold women to MY standards. I've been reading SoSuave since 2002, applied it half-assed since then, now it's time to get real with this stuff. Let's get it guys!
 

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Alright, JackRyanJuan and czy, you guys are in. Punisha, are you joining now despite the fact that you don't have a phone? And In Motion, I am getting a little tired of repeating myself over and over again, but you need to write some information about yourself...


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JackRyanJuan

I am thinking of opening two groups, so not all the people are posting and the same weekly threads. It could be a little bit too much to read 20 reports at the end of the week (and people are still joining). I think 10 people per group and thread should be max.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in.
I'm probably the oldest DJ here, I'm in my later 40's, for the boot camp but wtf we all need help no matter what age. Been divorced for 5 years and recently broke up with gf of 1 year. Live in Southern Calif.
 

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Count me in.Im 22 from Brooklyn New york and im currently in college.I wanna do this because I know this would help improve my game and every aspect of my life.Im a very social guy,I have a big circle of friends.As far as women go,I dont do enough cold approaches.I meet girls at clubs bars and partys but i just hate the whole approaching ramdom women on the streets.
Once in a while I read the stuff thats on this site,but im ready to commit to this and get the ball rolling.
 

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f*ck yeah I'm in, I've been waiting for this to be ressurected again.

here's some info on myself... 17, senior in high school, I'm doing this because I'm going to college in New York City and I want to be a DJ in time for when I head east. I'm a musician, jazz guitar and classical oboe, and I'm gonna major in composition in college. As far as progress.. inner game is very strong but outer game needs some work. Not only do I want to learn to approach random girls, I want to be able to make a connection with everyone I meet, guy or girl. I've only been here since like december but what I've learned in that short time has changed my life.

Let the bootcamp begin! (... on may 22)
 

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Al moh. Expet people to drop out a few weeks into BC. The last time we did this, most of us called it quits a few weeks into it, lol. I think one thread would still be ok.
 

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I really don't want to seem so pessimistic, lol. It is realistic though. I'm sure atleast some people will drop out.

Say for instance I meet a great girl in week 3, date her, then I very well may just screw the boot camp and go off with her. My town is not big enough for me to spin to many big plates - I'd very quickly get blown off by all the girls, lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I really don't want to seem so pessimistic, lol. It is realistic though. I'm sure atleast some people will drop out.

Say for instance I meet a great girl in week 3, date her, then I very well may just screw the boot camp and go off with her. My town is not big enough for me to spin to many big plates - I'd very quickly get blown off by all the girls, lol.
 

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Haha this is going to be awesome, so many people have joined since I checked this thread last. :up: and so many people my age (17) from all over the place. The results are going to be interesting. ;)
 

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I do realize that people are going to drop out even though I'm trying to minimize this risk. But again, I think if I cut down the groups to ten people, people would know each other better and rather have this group experience and go on. I can't watch after 30 people. So I'm thinking of making groups of 7 to 12 people. When a group gets too small I am going to merge groups for the next week. By doing that I hope that by week 8 there will be still one full group of people left that pulled all the way through and know each other pretty well.

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21 people, so about two full groups right now.
 
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Sorry bout that. I think I have some kind of phobia about sharing informations over the internet.

Anyways, here it goes: Im 19, live in norway. Blond, blue eyes (you get the deal). Im the absolute stereotype of a rocker. I love getting laid and music, the two greats of my life. And I am doing this because it sounds FUN!

Aight, thats all I could manage:p .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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