Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes, that's exactly what we need...ANOTHER F'ING POLL.Originally posted by Milez
it doesn`t look good for nick.
but who should do his job, if he his displaced.
another poll or whut?
if you have a better idea of who should manage the djb in the future, then go ahead.Originally posted by squirrels
Yes, that's exactly what we need...ANOTHER F'ING POLL.![]()
There's no room for politics on this site. Can we stop already?
I couldn't agree more with this one.Originally posted by bp1974
Nick, the poll's been jacked, so it's irrelevant now. You do a great job keeping the Bible up-to-date, compiling and linking everything. How you choose to live your dating life just isn't relevant to whether or not you should be the bible-keeper.
You're doing a good job, and it's appreciated.
Any little f*ckers who use PM to hate on people should grow the f*ck up. Little turds.
Dude...I suggest that you stop worrying about politics on this site and get your head in the game. You have 46 posts...most of which are pearls like this:Originally posted by Milez
if you have a better idea of who should manage the djb in the future, then go ahead.
i suggest the candidate should take the non-virgin-test![]()
Good...now let's apply that concept to another situation:Originally posted by Milez
well squirrels, it`s cute how you searched my posts and tried to show the contradictions in it.
i don`t want to start a flame-war with you or anybody else in this forum, but there`s one question to ask:
who the f*ck are you to tell me, what i should care about?!
do your thing and let me do mine.
and the number of posts means a sh!T
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
where/when did i say that nick is or isn`t qualified for compiling the djb?!Originally posted by squirrels
Who are YOU to tell Nick Hill or anyone else that he is or isn't qualified to compile a list of posts on this forum he thought especially good?
(iqqinick, repeat after me,
FCUK THE HATERS. (we all have them )
do not let someone questioning you undermine what you KNOW about yourself.
(gigaloI'm with you Nick.
One thing I started to realise in the past few days is the fact that while I have not yet had a long term girlfriend, or even sex, it doesn't mean that I have had no success at all. Much like Master Of The Universe, I guess, I measure success based on actual results rather than the change in mindset. Girls touch me every day, and it's been happening for a while now, so maybe I'm not using that as a measure of success any more. The truth is, that had girls touched me in the distant past, I would have considered it massive success.(one-on-oneI don't see how your inexperience is relevant to compiling the bible. It's not like you write the articles or even really choose them -- you just put in what is popularly considered the best advice. More power to ya!
I'm glad you're gone. Maybe I'll stop getting PMs from you!(uknowho: - banned)Hmmm,
A virgin telling us what proper advice is on bedding women...
someone guess how I'm voting
This is true. I have even added sex articles to the DJB. The addition of articles is mostly democratical. I don't go around saying "I like that one! No-one else does, but I'll add it anyway". People are rising up arguing on this forum which articles should and should not make it into the DJB. I even saw an article with the subject "This is one for the Bible!". No it wasn't!(BungoNick, you've got one hell of a head on your shoulders. I personally have no problem with you organizing the DJ Bible. Your choice of lifestyle has nothing to do with knowledge. You're not biased against people getting laid, or else you'd omit everything on the subject from the DJB.
I think that desiring sex simply because I haven't had it yet is pretty weak. That would mean that I'd go for anyone, fat or phychotic for example. She'd never let go?(BungoI completely respect your choice on the matter of virginity. Don't lose it to some stupid-ass bimbo like I almost did.
I saw that and got some PMs about it. For that reason I'm basing my decision on the responses and I'm guessing its 90% positive or at the very least way above 50. Thanks to you all!(Don RonnyAnother reason this poll is a dumb idea is that someone who really hates you can simply clear out their cache and re-vote.
Which seems to be the case, considering the "No"s just bumped from 25 to 220 in under half an hour!
Ha ha. Walden, you've been an inspiration to me for a while and you damn well know it too.(WaldenI vote with Nick.
With regard to the virginity angle as a matter of personal preference I'd ƒuck a knothole in a fence if I could figure out a way of keeping it's panties afterwards
I did ask a short while back but got little response. The people would need basic programming skills. Those with time to do the administration aren't out there in the field often (how else would they have time?) and those in the field often have too little time to spend on administration.(MVPlayaBut more importantly, just add someone to the Manage Bible thingy
Sir chance is not around very much at all, and Allen is faaaaar to busy! (I'm guessing - I don't see him posting tips)(MVPlayaHow about having Sir Chancealot or Allen Thompson
You wrote a very interesting response about people needing icons and sacred texts. I thought I'd point that out.(squirrelsI'm only going to say this once:
The site is hosted on my webspace given by the Computer Society of Swansea University ( www.sucs.org is a society of www.swan.ac.uk ). I get any web server technology for a whole year for only £5 ($7.50). This is my third year in university and hence the final year. After this year I will end up paying a lot more for similar features.(Big pappyFirst, who is paying for this space? Whose server is it on?
(milezDear Nick:
The DJB is your baby, if you don't want to maintain it anymore then don't. If you want to keep maintaining it, then do. Maybe you really do want to stop and this is a way of justifying that to yourself. Whatever you do, don't let a popularity contest decide things for you.
Thanks man. This reminds me of what is possibly a large reason for me being "upset" recently. Its the realisation that this is the third year and if I don't rush myself into a LTR soon my life will become incredibly more difficult. "If I were to leave University life without having had a girlfriend, I may never get one" - That's what my mind thinks. University is supposed to be the easiest place to pick up chicks and then after that its the big wide world with a job and fewer social opportunities. I'd actually like some feedback on this issue.(crazykidNich, you've done more then your fair share on this site. Don't let some words on the internet keep you from doing what you love doing. With the advice you give...You'll have those British chicks all over you shortly. Consider this a dry (very dry) spell. You'll soon plunge into a "wet" spell. Keep it up man.
Haha. I didn't pick the music bits nor have I listened to any of the tracks!(MVPlayaHmm... my only beef with the bible is that the music is TRULY made for pansies.
Nicholas.Its the realisation that this is the third year and if I don't rush myself into a LTR soon my life will become incredibly more difficult. "If I were to leave University life without having had a girlfriend, I may never get one" - That's what my mind thinks.