“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wodan

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What should you do if a girl is very socially intelligent and tries to be dominant on a date? I can tell its not good, i dont like it, but i dont know a way 2 turn it around or kill it withought spoiling the mood, any advice on things to say or do will be much appreciated :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I say pick your battles. Maybe she has ocd or something. The whole date thing is just a pre-fvck ritual anyway. If she wants to think she is bossing you around, let her. Then her defenses will be down later. Follow her back into her place, then push her up against a wall and start making out with her. Then who is dominating whom?
 

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She's not really that type of girl, makes a man wait then goes into a relationship, I would do that normally though, im wondering if there are subtle ways 2 reverse the roll that more experienced guys are probably aware of
 

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She's not really that type of girl, makes a man wait then goes into a relationship,

That's her frame. Are you going to accept it, or set your own? I bet some other guy has had sex with her w/o a relationship. That means you can, too.
 

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Maybe you can hot/cold her... I mean set up a date to your preferences and if she declines then decline the invite to her and say your going out to have fun then. I would try to not be to torn up about her being dominate just relax and stay cool she might be throwing you a sh1t test who knows but IF she starts to contradict what you say or maybe you picked something to do with each other and she picks something else or say's some crap about how you have bad taste then you should really think about nexting her there and now or stand by your decision and if she still doesnt want to do it then next her....she will see that it's your way or the highway and she will have a lot more respect if given those 2 decisions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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