“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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vachir

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hi guys just wondering what are the fine lines between being dominant and demanding in a relationship. please advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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demanding is asking for something. dominance is doing with no questions.
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Dominating a female is showing her through your actions (and subconsciously) that she'd better give you what you want, and you're not afraid to walk away.

It's what they want.
 

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Demanding means trying to get something out of a forceful coercion.

Dominant means that your frame and presence are more powerful than others.
 

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The male is naturally dominant, so it, his dominance, doesn't need to flaunted - overused, used unnecessarily. If his dominance is flaunted, then he is considered "demanding'. So when men make demands, then it is a natural occurrence, because he is following his natural dictates. Women are not dominant, so when they make demands upon the male, it does not coincide with their submissive nature, so then she is out of place! This is why demanding women bosses or demanding women, in general, are called "*****es", or another derogatory term - whereas the male is seen as following his natural design, and thus respected, when he adheres to his dominant/demanding nature!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Conquer

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its basically action and words.
 

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A girl is saying that I am demanding because I keep asking her to sing for me. She's been taking singing lessons for years.

I am asking her because I am interested in what she's been learning over the years and I want to take interest in her hobbies.

Do you think I am being out of line here?
 

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Lol, no your not out of line. Your just curious. Though don't become annoying with the request, if she doesn't want to then drop it.
 

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Both of those things are good, there is no line.

A dominant man will demand that she does things for him. Favours and such, she will get used to being used by you and will cherish you as her man.

Unless your idea of demanding is 'dont talk to other guys', thats just plain homo.

Demand favours yes, demand a change in behaviour NO.
 
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